The Art of Rehab Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Problem is, she is engaged to her boyfriend that she was dating for 4 years before we met. Long story short, we start work, they broke up the day we started apparently. We instantly click, exactly the same personalitys, etc, etc. Take walks, kiss, have a blast at work. She doesn't know what to do, she's scared to leave the 4 year past. They are back together now, but I can tell she still has feelings for me. I want to tell her so bad, but I know I shouldn't. I'm just really frustrated and I don't know what to do, she is perfect for me
JoGarr Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Well, it seems to me that this girl wants her cake and to eat it. It's pretty simple!! If she really has genuine feelings for you, she needed to break it off with her fiance. It isn't as though she's married to him yet. Couples break up all the time to start afresh. Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot. If YOU were engaged and your fiancee was playing around with some guy from work....How would you feel?? Finally, just bear in mind the age old saying, once a cheater, always a cheater. Ask yourself, if she genuinely wanted out of her engagement, then why is she still with the guy??? My advice?? Plenty of fish in the sea!!! Find a new, unattached girlfriend who is worthy of your affections and isn't wanting the best of both worlds. Good luck:)!!!!
bluechocolate Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 she is perfect for me The perfect person for you would be available. This one isn't, ergo .... Well maybe it's not that simple, but you get my drift.
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