Cora Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 I have been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks so it's not been very long at all. We usually talk everyday or at least every other day. We even had plans to meet this weekend. Nothing was set in stone but because we were not able to meet last weekend like we originally planned he told me to keep my schedule open for this weekend because he def would like to meet me. Since I usually talk to him pretty regularly I didn't worry too much about the details and figured they would all get sorted out later. Well the last time I spoke to him was on Monday. I saw that he was online and waited a good 20 minutes without him saying hello. He usually makes the first contact. So I end up saying hello and ask how he was doing? He then goes into detail about his job troubles. A lot of people have been terminated where he works and a lot more were soon to follow and he was worried that he may be one of them. Tuesday was when he was suppose to find out he told me. Well I could tell he really didn't feel like talking so I wished him well and told him we could talk later. It was literally a 5 min convo....the shortest we have ever had. Typical is an hour to two hours for us. But I just relayed all of this to him being down about his job which I can't blame him. I haven't heard anything from him since Monday and I didn't bother asking if we were still on for this weekend because I felt it would of been inappropriate given the circumstances. I did however notice that he has since logged on to the site we met on but not to messenger. Before the whole job incident we had a really good conversation as usual. So I'm not sure if he is avoiding me for whatever reason? If he is still interested? If our date is still on? I feel like if he wants to talk he would contact me. I'm leaving him alone since he didn't really seem like he was in a talking mood on Monday. I did however leave him a short message tonight just saying I hope you are doing well and hope everything with your job is okay since he would have found out yesterday. I kept it short and sweet. What do you guys think? Did he bail on me or is it just because of his job situation? Did I overdo it with sending him a message? Oh well if he did disappear on me it wouldn't be the first time a guy has done that to me. Just seems to be my luck lately.
Mahatma Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 I think you should just ask about the date on Friday, just to see if it is still on. It sounds to me like it might not be, but it'd be a mistake to just assume that.
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