sfsassy Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Hi Everyone: First thanks to those who responded to my last dating thread. I worried for nothing! The guy claimed he wasn't feeling chemistry either. I don't believe him totally, but I also don't care. Anyway, I have a new,much more fun problem. I belong to this group of people who like to do the same thing. I was involved last year, but the leadership changed for a while, and it ws not fun. However, now it is the original group again,and everything is cool. Last year,I had a crush on the organizer. I thought there might be some interest on his part, but he was dating someone, and I wasn't going there. It wasn't overwhelming at all, though I felt a twinge of disappointment when I met her.(though she was a totally cool girl.) So I get word from him that the original group was back on.. The first event was a bit formal, but he sat by me most of the night, and chatted about his whacky work situation. (whacky in a good way, lol.) He also mentioned some random email I had sent like a year before. I also noticed that not too sadly, that his g/f was not at the event. There was also just this vibe. I think the other people noticed it too because they kept smiling at us. lol. Anyway, the next event was more informal. A bit beer based, lol. I was at the event site before him, and he greeted me by coming up behind me, and putting his hands on my shoulders than asking if I was ready for a crazy night, lol. It was an incredibly loud venue, and i have a speech impairment, AND speak softly, so spent a fair amount of time just eavesdropping. He mentioned to a guy in relaying a story that his g/f and him had broken up. (so heartbroken here, lol.) Then we had dinner. Again he came to sit by me. It was incredibly cramped so it was not an easy feat. The thing that struck me the most though was he kept rubbing my back, I mean not overtly sexual, but he did it all through dinner when he was talking to the girl on his other side. (a friend of his. don't get a romance vibe with them at all. .) He also fed me a bite of his food with his fork, and I caught his eye a few times. So any ideas? I really like this group, so if there is nothing with this guy, don't want to risk it, but do like him.
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