Author DJOwen Posted May 2, 2009 Author Posted May 2, 2009 god i hope that's not the case...if it was I guess in a way it would make things a lot easier! ....... I don't think it is but appreciate the input!
Flying Burrito Posted May 2, 2009 Posted May 2, 2009 DJOwen, are you involved with another woman besides the wife since you got married? Physically? Emotionally? Fantasies? Online?
TheOtherGirl Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 Dear DJOwen, It seems like you have a good head on your shoulders. But a lot of the time, good things dont always happen to good people. It seems like a lot of the stuff that is happening is caused by her - not you. And it also seems like she's just bitching to bitch... just starting arguments because its something to do. Was your marriage happy-go-lucky before the pregnancy? Or the last 6 months you said? As a person who has cheated before, i know that when you cheat you start to get suspicious of the other person, become angry towards them, and it a lot of the time it just makes it hard to get along. Would you ever suspect your wife of cheating? Has she before? I hope things work out for the best - whether that means you staying with your wife or not. Ive learned that life is a lot harder when you keep fighting the losing battles and sometimes no matter how much faith we have, we still lose people - sometimes for the better. Always remember that a relationship cant survive on love alone, but you can always make it work if you think its the right thing. Good luck "Dont cry because its over. Smile because it happened." -Dr. Seuss
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