lostandlonely2 Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 I met a woman travelling a while ago (few months) and invited her to come stay if she ever visited where I live... I didn't go into all my personal life as it was a kind of whirlwind travelling romance, but now she has emailed that she has bought a ticket to come visit and I am wondering if I should tell her I have a daughter (who lives with her mother nearby, but I see often) now by email (she has already bought the ticket) or in person when she arrives... Thanks, D
bluechocolate Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Is this the same woman who wants to bring a friend ?? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t187368/
Author lostandlonely2 Posted April 29, 2009 Author Posted April 29, 2009 LOL! No... I never met her again! I felt offended for some reason that she had invited a friend and was just wondering why someone would do that in case it happens again in the future with someone else!
KikiW Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Since she's already gone ahead an bought a ticket I don't see the point in bringing it up until you see her face to face. Although I would be interested to know what intentions this woman has - is she looking for a casual fling ("I'm bored, need to get out of town for a couple of days and get lucky.") or is she looking to explore something serious? It sounds to me like you were just having a casual thing so she may not care whether you have children or not.
2sure Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Its slightly alarming that she would come and stay with a guy that she doesn't know well enough to know he has children. So, either you two have not gotten to the point where sharing that information is important or you have perhaps unintentionally hidden it from her. Do you know these types of things about her? If you do - then yes, you should tell her. But thats not really whats important here. If she is going to be spending the nights with you during her visit....do not bring your daughter over during that time. Period. Depending on her age and whether or not you generally introduce daughter to dates - it might be OK to do a daytime activity but your daughter doesn't need to be aware the woman is sleeping with you.
Mimolicious Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Yes, you should tell her face to face. Sounds like she is coming over reagrdless. LOL! at the audacity of people... I mean, I am not saying anything about you but I dont understand how could people trust total strangers. (Just watch the news and see how many unfortunate things happen).
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