ithinkilikehim Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Hi guys I need your opinion. So, I was talking with this guy that I have liked on and off for about a year now and he was telling me a lot about his personal life and a lot about his sex life and just things that you would not expect a guy to tell a girl. I want to know what you guys think of this. Like does he trust me that much to tell me so much, do you think there might be something there? This would really help if it came from a guys point of view too! Thanks for everything!!
Charles1978 Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 My guess would be that he has liked you also, but is afraid that he is nothing more than just a friend. So, one of the ways to attempt to escape the friend zone and perhaps have something more is to have more sexually charged conversations with you in hopes that you will see him in a different light. Basically, my guess is that he is probably interested in something more with you. I know that I never bring up sex with a girl i am not interested in sexually. That's just me, but I think most guys are the same way.
Author ithinkilikehim Posted April 29, 2009 Author Posted April 29, 2009 My guess would be that he has liked you also, but is afraid that he is nothing more than just a friend. So, one of the ways to attempt to escape the friend zone and perhaps have something more is to have more sexually charged conversations with you in hopes that you will see him in a different light. Basically, my guess is that he is probably interested in something more with you. I know that I never bring up sex with a girl i am not interested in sexually. That's just me, but I think most guys are the same way. Thanks! I appreciate your input. We are pretty much on the same page for what I was thinking. I just couldnt type it out right to make it make scence but you did. Thanks again. =)
Juristhea Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 He feels he can open up to you, even sharing with you his intimate thoughts. Just goes to show that maybe he is interested in you and he wants to open up to you and he did that so he can gauge your response. I just hope that he was also sincere with the way he was talking about his personal and sexual thoughts. Most guys just talk for the sake of getting into our pants... I've been there...
Mahatma Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Yeah, it means he is trying to go that intimate path with you. ithinkhelikesu
Juristhea Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Yup. He's trying to be intimate with you but be sure that what's he been sharing to you is downright sincere and not just as an excuse to get laid.
spiracles Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 i hate to be the lone voice of dissention here, but i talk to my roommate about stuff like this as well. and while we have developed a certain comfort level, i am not even remotely attracted to her. but i'm sure it's because i'm just weird like that, and that's totally not the case with this guy. and yeah, he trusts you - unless he is making it all up, of course.
BobSacamento Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 I would never divulge that personal information to someone I wanted to be romantically involved. The reason being the TMI may be a turn off, friends I don't care about turning off lol.
colosseum Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 I would never divulge that personal information to someone I wanted to be romantically involved. The reason being the TMI may be a turn off, friends I don't care about turning off lol. I think this is more in line with what's going on. I think Charles1978 has a grain of truth, but BobSacamento has it right. I think he liked you once in the past, but it seems he has given up because I don't think most guys divulge such information to people they are romantically interested in; the topic is usually too provocative & frankly, risky. My gut says he wouldn't be saying all these things to you if he were genuinely interested. My 2 cents.
lostandlonely2 Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 there's only one way to find out for sure... if you are already talking about sex, just ask him! say 'so, are you telling me you want to have sex with me?' and see what he does/says?
Author ithinkilikehim Posted April 29, 2009 Author Posted April 29, 2009 there's only one way to find out for sure... if you are already talking about sex, just ask him! say 'so, are you telling me you want to have sex with me?' and see what he does/says? No joke, I almost asked him that but our conversation was interupted. haha oh well.
Author ithinkilikehim Posted April 29, 2009 Author Posted April 29, 2009 i hate to be the lone voice of dissention here, but i talk to my roommate about stuff like this as well. and while we have developed a certain comfort level, i am not even remotely attracted to her. but i'm sure it's because i'm just weird like that, and that's totally not the case with this guy. and yeah, he trusts you - unless he is making it all up, of course. Thanks =). This actually isnt the first time he has told me things like this and a lot of the things he was saying he had told me in the past. He probablly just forgot he told me. But what he said was pretty much the samething as last time. So unless he is a really good liar and remember what he lies about, Im pretty sure its the truth. Everyone else, Thank you so much for all of your imputs! Mahatma- That was funny with the ithinkhelikesu part. Totally made my day. =) Colosseum- At one point in the past I did think he liked me but he ended up getting a g/f. They just broke up a week ago so that might be why hes starting to talk about all of this again...
Amber4eva Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 It depends on how open of a relationship you have with each other....most guys would not want a girl they were serious about to know too many details of their sex life....I am the type that does not tell and does not want to know too much...some is ok but that's just me. Also, maybe he is wanting a sexual relationship with you as well.
Legend Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Hi guys I need your opinion. So, I was talking with this guy that I have liked on and off for about a year now and he was telling me a lot about his personal life and a lot about his sex life and just things that you would not expect a guy to tell a girl. I want to know what you guys think of this. Like does he trust me that much to tell me so much, do you think there might be something there? This would really help if it came from a guys point of view too! Thanks for everything!! friend zone.
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