lenz0223 Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 this girl (prob in her mid 20's) was giving me signals at the gym to approach her but i realized after the fact. i'm a guy..c'mon how am i suppose to know?? i just didn't pick up on it... i really don't see her that much. i've seen her once a week over the past 2 months. sometimes from a far, sometimes close... but i'm def not stalking her. she's actually doing the chasing. but there were 3 occassions where she did give me obvious signals (i.e. eye contact, proximity) to approach her. the 3rd time i tried to talk to her but it was awkward. last week, i saw her on the treadmill with her friend from a distance. there was no way for me to approach. for some reason, her friend grabbed the railing on the treadmill, kept turning her head looking behind her, and i believe she noticed me working out. next thing i know they take the real long scenic route to leave the gym... weird. i'll probably see her again in a couple of weeks but i feel that this is a lost cause and she's lost interest in me. even if i approached her and said hello, it wouldn't make a difference would you lose interest? is it a lost cause or can I re-salvage this? thank you
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 What's wrong with the advice you received the last time you posted this exact same scenario? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t186362/
Mahatma Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 What's wrong with the advice you received the last time you posted this exact same scenario? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t186362/ I always love it when I see people get pegged for this..
Jersey Shortie Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Well, I say go for it. There is a guy at my gym that I have crushed on for years. Sometimes we make eye contact, sometimes he even comes and works out on the machine next to me, sometimes he completely ignores me and sometimes I completely ignore him....there are other hot guys but I jsut feel a little extra something for him. If he is there in the gym floor, I seem to have a 6th sense and just manage to see him. I wish he would try talking to me. There was a point I thought he would but now I don' tknow and he talks to other girls so I don't really think he is that interested. Point is, you never know. And your the man so you should do the approaching.
Mahatma Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Well, I say go for it. There is a guy at my gym that I have crushed on for years. Sometimes we make eye contact, sometimes he even comes and works out on the machine next to me, sometimes he completely ignores me and sometimes I completely ignore him....there are other hot guys but I jsut feel a little extra something for him. If he is there in the gym floor, I seem to have a 6th sense and just manage to see him. I wish he would try talking to me. There was a point I thought he would but now I don' tknow and he talks to other girls so I don't really think he is that interested. Point is, you never know. And your the man so you should do the approaching. I've had girls give me the "come talk to me" looks at the gym and I too wont go talk to them. Why? Because I have a girlfriend and don't want to lead anyone on. The guy you mention could just know those girls he talks to from outside the gym, but is uninterested in approaching any new ones. Or maybe he is single and just isn't interested.
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