samboy01 Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 I have this coworker, at work we talk and kind of know each others but only at work... we are both guys... i'm interested in him, I have no clue if he's gay but he might be... I asked if he'd like to go eating sometimes, he said yeah sure, so he gave me his number... I called him yesterday, I got his answering machine.... (he didn't know that I was the one calling because he didn't have my number)... well I said something on the answering machine like: "hi how are you, i'm calling you to see if we can organise something for this week... i know you are working these next 2 days, but anyway my number is ...... if you want call me or maybe i'll call you later today or tomorrow... bye..." well, he didn't call back but i kind of told him that it's ok that i might call again.. i don't want to sound desperate or scare the guy, so what should i do? i mean if i call him and get to talk to him, there's no problem it will be cool, but what if it rings and i get his answering machine again? do i leave another message or not? i don't want to be coming too strong or desperate... anyways i'm just excited about getting to know this person, i don't know if he feels the same way, i just don't want to ruin it... if i get to talk to him it's going to be cool, but the answering machine stuff is what's making me not know what to do... i don't know if i should leave another message in case it's the answering machine...
Author samboy01 Posted April 28, 2009 Author Posted April 28, 2009 please i'd like to hear your opinion.. thanks
Treasa Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 I don't think you should call him again. Play it cool. Have you seen him at work since then? Just be friendly, but treat him as though you would treat a friend who you aren't interested in.
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