simplythebest Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 After almost 2 months of NC, I texted , my ex last night. This is the exact same msg I sent him: "Why can't I move on like you did? I tried, I really did -- only to miss you even more. I know it bothers you that I still contact you, but I can't help it." He replied: "its OVER. please stop communicating." I then texted him: "Ok, I will. This was your last chance. If we ever see each other again, pretend you never met me, bc I will do the same." I guess my question is WHY? I never did anything wrong. The only reason I texted him was bc I had accepted to go on a date with someone else the first time since the break-up). I wanted to give him one last chance. I guess I still had hope. I am thinking that maybe he already has someone else and it is killing me!!! I didn't think I still cared for him this much. I thought I was ready to move on...
Chinook Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 It doesn't matter why hon. The fact is, what he's telling you is it's done. You have to face the future without him. It's done now and yes, you still had hope and I would hazard a guess that you do still have hope. You're not ready to move on just now, but you will be. Take some time, take some space, breathe and be. It will come good in the end. Trust me.
bluewolf17 Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 I know it seems hard to understand now, but the fact that he is actually TELLING YOU it's over, is a good thing! Some men aren't that upfront, and it takes months of back and forth before healing can begin. He is actually giving you the green light to move on. I bet right now you are still hoping he will "wake up and realize" but the truth is, he probably won't. But maybe you will wake up and realize that this is not the end for you. You will love again, stronger even. He is being direct with you, and maybe down the road you might be thankful for that. And down the road, you might want to feel good about the fact that you let the relationship end with grace and dignity. Take care of yourself, and love yourself. Want yourself back, miss yourself. Good luck. Bluewolf17
PinkRibbon Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 I have no idea why but for some reason when I read this post I wanted to cry. I guess it is the need to just see and be with the one you love who doesn't love you.
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