Never ever had a girlfriend in my entire life.

[serial muse]

Taramere - that's already been discussed ad nauseum in his other similar threads.

 

Not to put words in Tara's mouth, but I thought perhaps she was making a gentle allusion to his overall ugly attitude.

 

Despite BoredPerson's insistence that it's everyone else who's being nasty by pointing out this flaw in his attitude, there is some irony to his constant, yet entirely un-self-aware descriptor of himself as an "ugly person." Because: yes.

[xpaperxcutx]

You know B_P, I'm tired of your attitude. Why do you continuously blame others ( specifically women) for your misfortunes? Maybe I would be more compassionate had you not attacked SpankTheMonkey but now, I just have more respect for her than I will ever have for you. At least she's confident with herself and her body, and that's WHY she's dating a wonderful guy, yet, you're the one complaining of being dateless and sitting in front of the computer. So who's the one who gets the last laugh?

 

Stop setting double standards for yourself. If you say you're the " Peter Griffin" type and you want to change, instead of always thinking about it, how about getting off that chair of yours and hit the gym. Don't accuse women of being fat if you're that kind of body type because it just makes you a hypocrite. Personally, I would think were you to ever change your outside appearances, you would still be ugly on the inside because your personality absolutely disgusts me.

 

If you don't agree me, you can attack me all you want. But in all honesty God never gave me the confidence that I have now. I worked the hell out of myself to be more open and social. So excuse me if you start attacking me for my self-confidence, because all in all, at least I get good night knowing I've became a better person for myself, and also seeing someone wonderful.

 

So if you're asking yourself why you can't get a date, why don't you look inward first. I hope you can come to a realization that you need to abandon your high horse and obstinacy soon, before you truly end up alone forever.

[a4a]

BP suffers from entitlement syndrome.

 

Thinks the world owes him simply because he exists.

 

And when it is not delivered he becomes bitter and looks for a scapegoat to blame for his failure to achieve his desired outcome.

 

Really he is harder on himself than anyone through these actions than he will ever be on anyone else.

 

He will continue to set himself up for failure. Makes me wonder what he gets out of it? Self pity emotional pay day? Or If I beat other up, I can justify it because they beat me up by not giving me what I am entitled to?

 

Needs therapy.

[BoredPerson]

Hey BP. Just curious how you reconcile the logical fallacy in your post here, which I have helpfully highlighted in bold.

 

I await your personal attack. Thanks.

 

They're not a contradiction.

 

a Men value looks more than women.

 

but

 

b Women reject me because of my looks.

 

nowhere does "a" suggest that women don't consider looks, only that men consider them more.

[BoredPerson]

You know B_P, I'm tired of your attitude. Why do you continuously blame others ( specifically women) for your misfortunes? Maybe I would be more compassionate had you not attacked SpankTheMonkey but now, I just have more respect for her than I will ever have for you. At least she's confident with herself and her body, and that's WHY she's dating a wonderful guy, yet, you're the one complaining of being dateless and sitting in front of the computer. So who's the one who gets the last laugh?

 

Stop setting double standards for yourself. If you say you're the " Peter Griffin" type and you want to change, instead of always thinking about it, how about getting off that chair of yours and hit the gym. Don't accuse women of being fat if you're that kind of body type because it just makes you a hypocrite. Personally, I would think were you to ever change your outside appearances, you would still be ugly on the inside because your personality absolutely disgusts me.

 

If you don't agree me, you can attack me all you want. But in all honesty God never gave me the confidence that I have now. I worked the hell out of myself to be more open and social. So excuse me if you start attacking me for my self-confidence, because all in all, at least I get good night knowing I've became a better person for myself, and also seeing someone wonderful.

 

So if you're asking yourself why you can't get a date, why don't you look inward first. I hope you can come to a realization that you need to abandon your high horse and obstinacy soon, before you truly end up alone forever.

 

No I am not fat but I look like him in all other ways an peter griffin isn't fat because 'fat men aren't fat only fat women are fat'.

 

Its easier for women because all they have to say is 'yes' to a man and even fat women can get dates because some men are desperate. Well I might be single and I might not like it but I am not the type of person who wuold ever be desperate enough to settle for a woman I wasn't attracted to.

 

All my life people have told me I am not good enough to do anything good. My parents and friends actually told me I should be happy to work in a call centre that I would have to get a blue collar job that I would never get a good job and now I have a very good job. So I showed them.

 

With sport and academics and everything in my life people always say 'you can't do this, you can't do that' and sometimes they're right, and I do fail and they think they have the last laught but I never give up. I never give up and sometimes I just happen surprise them.

 

But with girls it is different. I don't look at a woman and say 'she is out of my league'. I look at her and think how could I get that girl, and if I cannot see how I could then I don't try but that almost never happens. I always tell myself that there is some way I can get one. And sometimes it has paid off for me. But with girls it is different, no matter how good a job I can do they will never have feelings for me.

 

Why ?

 

Because I am ugly.

 

I know what I want and what I want is a good girl. She has to be sexy enough that I want to have sex with her and would be proud to show her to my friends but that is all. All of these other women are just whores and money can buy whores but you can't buy a good girl.

 

How is that so hard to get ? You'd think that women would want to have a stable loving relationship but apparently they do want to have just that, however, not with me. Because I am a very ugly person and I a bad person and there are a lot of other men out there who are much better than me, so why would anyone date me ?

 

They don't and I don't want to settle for a lady who is fat as cow... so I have to be single forever, which is hard when there are so many beautfiul women. There is one girl at the cafe where I sometiems by lunch she is young, maybe 19 or 20 and she is tall with light brown hair and a slight tan with a alittle pit bekky, She is so cute I want to get to know her but so does probably every other man that has ever had lunch in the world.

 

Makes me feel sad just to talk to her and I wonder if she knows how I think about her some of the time. 'Don't idolise women'. I don't, I know she is nothing but a pair of breasts and a vagina all she is is her looks.... she probably doesn't even go to schoo as I see her there almost every single day.

[The Collector]

Bored Person, do you want help with this issue or do you want to argue with people?

 

What do you think you could do or change about you or your behaviour to be more succesful with women?

[Rosalind]

Hi BoredPerson...

 

I've read all your posts. Just being curious - how 'bout

posting a pic of yourself in your profile?

[sotired]

Makes me feel sad just to talk to her and I wonder if she knows how I think about her some of the time. 'Don't idolise women'. I don't, I know she is nothing but a pair of breasts and a vagina all she is is her looks.... she probably doesn't even go to schoo as I see her there almost every single day.

 

You just don't get it do you? The above statement shows your complete lack of respect for women in general....but then you want a woman that is PROUD of you??? Do you see where that's never going to happen with your attitude.

 

And why all the fat hating? If you aren't attracted to them, fine..don't go for them....But quit being jealous that they are getting ass while you aren't.

 

I've never seen someone so ugly they couldn't do SOMETHING to fix their appearance. But you've been given that advice before...I think you are so terrified of rejection, you just cut others down before they can hurt you. Bitterness doesn't look good on anyone...and you say it's just online...but no way can you feel this way and not project it in real life.

 

There are plenty of decent thin girls out there that aren't shallow....but quit just assuming it's your look that turns them off. There are plenty of ugly losers with no jobs and nothing going for them with hot chicks. I know you think you are different, but I've met tons of people just like you.....People with such low self esteem and jealousy that it doesn't matter what they look like, people avoid them like the plague...and they can't admit that maybe....just maybe...it's their personality and attitude that turns people off.

[Bejita463]

No I am not fat but I look like him in all other ways an peter griffin isn't fat because 'fat men aren't fat only fat women are fat'.

 

I laughed so hard at this that it literally caused me pain.

 

Its easier for women because all they have to say is 'yes' to a man and even fat women can get dates because some men are desperate. Well I might be single and I might not like it but I am not the type of person who wuold ever be desperate enough to settle for a woman I wasn't attracted to.

 

Apparently those women feel the same way about you. Except, using your own logic that they are less visual, it stands to reason your crap attitude is what is turning them off. Not your looks.

 

All my life people have told me I am not good enough to do anything good. My parents and friends actually told me I should be happy to work in a call centre that I would have to get a blue collar job that I would never get a good job and now I have a very good job. So I showed them.

 

Relevance.

 

With sport and academics and everything in my life people always say 'you can't do this, you can't do that' and sometimes they're right, and I do fail and they think they have the last laught but I never give up. I never give up and sometimes I just happen surprise them.

 

Relevance.

 

But with girls it is different. I don't look at a woman and say 'she is out of my league'. I look at her and think how could I get that girl, and if I cannot see how I could then I don't try but that almost never happens. I always tell myself that there is some way I can get one. And sometimes it has paid off for me. But with girls it is different, no matter how good a job I can do they will never have feelings for me.

 

Why ?

 

Because I am ugly.

 

That is exactly why, and it is not your physical appearance that I'm referencing.

 

I know what I want and what I want is a good girl. She has to be sexy enough that I want to have sex with her and would be proud to show her to my friends but that is all. All of these other women are just whores and money can buy whores but you can't buy a good girl.

 

If you are never going to admit you might be the problem, and not everyone else, you should keep your Visa/Mastercard polished off and ready to go.

 

How is that so hard to get ? You'd think that women would want to have a stable loving relationship but apparently they do want to have just that, however, not with me. Because I am a very ugly person and I a bad person and there are a lot of other men out there who are much better than me, so why would anyone date me ?

 

They would want to date you because you stopped riding the self-pity train, quit assuming you were entitled to a relationship and began putting effort forth to be worthy of one.

 

They don't and I don't want to settle for a lady who is fat as cow... so I have to be single forever, which is hard when there are so many beautfiul women. There is one girl at the cafe where I sometiems by lunch she is young, maybe 19 or 20 and she is tall with light brown hair and a slight tan with a alittle pit bekky, She is so cute I want to get to know her but so does probably every other man that has ever had lunch in the world.

 

Want a hint on why one of them will get her, and you'll keep playing pocket-hockey?

 

I know she is nothing but a pair of breasts and a vagina all she is is her looks.... she probably doesn't even go to schoo as I see her there almost every single day.

[BoredPerson]

Bored Person, do you want help with this issue or do you want to argue with people?

 

What do you think you could do or change about you or your behaviour to be more succesful with women?

 

I don't know I have tried everything and I still get rejected all of the time. I am very sad.

[Bejita463]

I don't know I have tried everything and I still get rejected all of the time. I am very sad.

 

You'll never solve a problem that you refuse to admit exists.

[sotired]

I don't know I have tried everything and I still get rejected all of the time. I am very sad.

 

What have you tried?

[era]

Never ever had a girlfriend in my entire life.

 

If it's any consolation,(except with my HS sweetheart) I never had an adult relationship until I was 25 yrs.

 

I was just having too much fun to settle down.

 

I expect you to fire back at me for being a whore/fat cow/only good for my vagina/and breasts etc..

 

Go ahead - I'm waiting..

[sotired]

Never ever had a girlfriend in my entire life.

 

If it's any consolation,(except with my HS sweetheart) I never had an adult relationship until I was 25 yrs.

 

 

He can't even get a girl to get naked for him though...or even consider getting naked for him...Poor guy....None of those walking breasts and vaginas will give him a chance

[Athena]

BoredPerson, you keep on saying you are ugly. There are ways to improve your looks, you know!

 

Please post a photo or two of your face and a body shot on your profile. Then I can give you advice on what you can do to improve your looks.

 

Go ahead. Don't be shy -- you can always take the pictures down after an hour or two, and at least you will receive some advice. What do you think?

[SpanksTheMonkey]

The words attention whore come to mind here for some reason good I'm glad your sad serves you right. So now any one who dates me is automatically desperate?

 

Seriously cant they get rid of this guy on here already all he dose is openly degrade people and then cries about his sad life.

 

He is fat folks he said so in one of this earlier threads go have a looksie unless he was lieing for some reason who knows.

 

Maybe he doesn't wanna be seen as a hypocrite to late for that...

[SpanksTheMonkey]

Bored Person, do you want help with this issue or do you want to argue with people?

 

What do you think you could do or change about you or your behaviour to be more succesful with women?

No Collector he wants to argue and insult and whine seriously all he needs is a violin playing in the background cant you guys hear it? lol... :lmao:

 

Oh but no wait I'm wrong for going back at him for insulting me after all I'm just a stupid women right BP..

 

Ladies have a look at some of BPs previous threads and you will see if you haven't already just form this one.

 

Were I get my strong dislike for this person OK I a also await the onslaught of insults I can almost hear the his hot little fingers on the keys now lol... :laugh:

 

Now just to clear things up this is a personal attack on you just returning the favor have a nice day

[sotired]

Spanks...I wouldn't let him get to you. He is just jealous that you can get ass and he can't.

 

I wonder if a fat girl rejected him or something? I've never seen so much "fat hate" from someone who is fat.

[SpanksTheMonkey]

Spanks...I wouldn't let him get to you. He is just jealous that you can get ass and he can't.

 

I wonder if a fat girl rejected him or something? I've never seen so much "fat hate" from someone who is fat.

True sotired its not so much gets to me its the fact he insults every one all the time. And then expects us to feel sorry cause hes sad like wopdefricken do who cares!

 

I don't think after this thread many people are going to take him seriously anyways.

 

Theres only so many times people can give him the same advice there going to get tired of trying.

 

And having it fall on deaf ears cause Its clear by now hes not here for our advice..

[sotired]

Exactly....He just wants attention. Negative attention is better than none at all...which is what he's getting from all the girls in real life

[The Collector]

Its clear by now hes not here for our advice..

 

It certainly looks that way. Four pages and no attempt to explore the subject matter and all advice ignored. Pity parties aren't my style, bye Bored Person.

[xpaperxcutx]

No I am not fat but I look like him in all other ways an peter griffin isn't fat because 'fat men aren't fat only fat women are fat'.

 

Its easier for women because all they have to say is 'yes' to a man and even fat women can get dates because some men are desperate. Well I might be single and I might not like it but I am not the type of person who wuold ever be desperate enough to settle for a woman I wasn't attracted to.

 

All my life people have told me I am not good enough to do anything good. My parents and friends actually told me I should be happy to work in a call centre that I would have to get a blue collar job that I would never get a good job and now I have a very good job. So I showed them.

 

With sport and academics and everything in my life people always say 'you can't do this, you can't do that' and sometimes they're right, and I do fail and they think they have the last laught but I never give up. I never give up and sometimes I just happen surprise them.

 

But with girls it is different. I don't look at a woman and say 'she is out of my league'. I look at her and think how could I get that girl, and if I cannot see how I could then I don't try but that almost never happens. I always tell myself that there is some way I can get one. And sometimes it has paid off for me. But with girls it is different, no matter how good a job I can do they will never have feelings for me.

 

Why ?

 

Because I am ugly.

 

I know what I want and what I want is a good girl. She has to be sexy enough that I want to have sex with her and would be proud to show her to my friends but that is all. All of these other women are just whores and money can buy whores but you can't buy a good girl.

 

How is that so hard to get ? You'd think that women would want to have a stable loving relationship but apparently they do want to have just that, however, not with me. Because I am a very ugly person and I a bad person and there are a lot of other men out there who are much better than me, so why would anyone date me ?

 

They don't and I don't want to settle for a lady who is fat as cow... so I have to be single forever, which is hard when there are so many beautfiul women. There is one girl at the cafe where I sometiems by lunch she is young, maybe 19 or 20 and she is tall with light brown hair and a slight tan with a alittle pit bekky, She is so cute I want to get to know her but so does probably every other man that has ever had lunch in the world.

 

Makes me feel sad just to talk to her and I wonder if she knows how I think about her some of the time. 'Don't idolise women'. I don't, I know she is nothing but a pair of breasts and a vagina all she is is her looks.... she probably doesn't even go to schoo as I see her there almost every single day.

 

Once again, double standards.

 

You're a walking contradiction. If you're fat, you're fat. Don't go around putting down women for being fat and saying the same doesn't apply to men.

 

You're sad. Just reading your response repulsed me.

 

If you want, you can just go live in a dumpster for the rest of your life.

[windows]

wow negatie turn against the poster. umm.. self reflect from a less cynical point of view for once. your life doesnt end now, you have time to change.

[Just Angel]

"instead of LOOKING for the right person- BE the right person"

 

Your issues are serious and you are in no emotional shape to be a relationship at this point. Fix your issues first and become a whole, healthy person.

[BoredPerson]

I think some of you have bigger issues that I do atleast I admit I have a problem whereas you lot seem to want to delude yourself into believing that the world is going to be the way you want it to be.

 

I am more mature than you are and have come to the realisation that it is an uphill battle for me to find a partner because I am ugly but also in life. Have you noticed how most of the people in fancy companies are almost never ugly ? There are certain teams where I work that it is more or less compulsary to be a hot chick with big tits.

 

Thats why the economy is buggered. All these cool kids got together and thought they were better than everyone else well they weren't they were just fancy sluts and sales people who thought they could run the economy better than the scientists that spend their lives studying it and now look at the mess we are in.

 

I don't have a girlfriend at it causes me a lot of pain recently I'm just wondering if it is normal and if I need to just put up with it or if there is something wrong.

 

I think of all of the years that I have missed out on having female company and it is very sad. I am not one of those angry nasty people that post on here I am just frustrated with my life and I accept that something is wrong.

 

I'm not going to turn around and say that women will love me for my personality because it just isn't true that women will do that, you need to be good looking as well as have a good personality.

 

I went to get a pizza and I was perving on a girl from a college and she smiled at me and my heart sunk because I know nothind could ever happen. Well she went to the same pizza shop and started talking with he gay looking male friends in their fancy suits as they talked about classes I looked her and her friends and they were all very attractive.

 

As I started to realise there is no place in the world for ugly young people...