colosseum Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 I been seeing this girl just recently, and we really like each other. There hasn't been any intimacy yet, since we're just getting started. We've known each other for a couple of months but got together just the two of us this past weekend, and had a great time. I saw her just 24 hours ago, and talked to her on the phone last night. I'll see her tomorrow for a club we're in together, but it won't be a 1-on-1. I told her yesterday that we should aim for Wednesday. Here's the thing; I really like her and would love to talk to her again tonight. I don't want to seem desperate or needy by calling her, of course. That said, I also don't want to miss an opportunity for positive points if calling and checking in with her at this point will be a nice/kind thing to do. Furthermore, there seem to be all these rules about when to call someone you like, and when not to. My heart wants to say call her, but my head says just wait. To call or not to call her...? Thoughts? Advice? PS: Her birthday is coming up, but since we're not super close yet, what should I get her?
Juristhea Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 We girls dont admit it but we do find it cute when guys call us out of nothing and unexpectedly. It's the thought that counts behind the call that you're making. As for birthday gifts, you can check out a few ideas here: http://www.couplescompany.com/shopping/Girlfriend.htm
alphamale Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 That said, I also don't want to miss an opportunity for positive points if calling and checking in with her at this point will be a nice/kind thing to do. it won't, trust me... unless one of your relatives or a pet died today
BobSacamento Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 Personally, if I was in your situation, I'd wait considering I had a confirmed meeting and spoken to her 24 hours ago.
Author colosseum Posted April 28, 2009 Author Posted April 28, 2009 it won't, trust me... unless one of your relatives or a pet died today So alphamale: don't call. (?)
Juristhea Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 think of a reason first why you want to call her. trust me, we ask guys why they call us. *wink*
Author colosseum Posted April 28, 2009 Author Posted April 28, 2009 Yay! She called first. Unfortunately I didn't have my phone then, but good signs...yes?
Juristhea Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 What did she say? I think it's good. She must;ve missed you.
Author colosseum Posted April 28, 2009 Author Posted April 28, 2009 Her schedule tomorrow freed up so she wants to hang out, but alas my schedule conflicts...just hope she's not mad that I e-mailed her instead of calling because it was, IMO, too late to call...
xpaperxcutx Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 Her schedule tomorrow freed up so she wants to hang out, but alas my schedule conflicts...just hope she's not mad that I e-mailed her instead of calling because it was, IMO, too late to call... Give yourself a smack on the head. Give her a call about your schedule conflict because then she'll know that at least you made the effort to inform about it.
Author colosseum Posted April 28, 2009 Author Posted April 28, 2009 Yeah, did both this morning. (the smacking-of-head was metaphysical...)
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