FlipFlop26 Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Any resemblance to any movie story is purely coincidental!!! 1. Met at work. he said he was attracted to me. I thought it was love. He took me home on our first date.I was reluctant but went ahead. 2. secret relationship -> lost virginity -> he wouldnt meet me unless he knew we would be having sex...thought he will fall in love by spending more time...but had my doubts from time to time...still kept sailing in the boat. 3. He told me after 8 months; he cant get married bcoz of religious issues. I loved him n thought if we stay together my love will win me over and ( how naive at tht time) would change him. It happens only in the movies trust me!! 4. Tiwst in the tale : I caught him secretly talking to another married woman at work and flirting with her. He was hiding things meeting her.I was stressed and told him I will come out in the open. happened 1 month back. 5. he broke up with me and he went and got engaged to a girl he had never met. this happened 1 week back. i was on a verge of breakdown. 6. after just 1 week i.e today; messages me : i dont think u wil do any harm to me or come out in the open; so lets have somemore fun. 7 I was shocked. I asked him what fun. he said we can be FWB till I get married. his exact words were..lets have fun and sex till i get married. 8. I asked him ( ofcourse didnt mean it; ) to find out if he was just testing me : if we will still be like a normal couple. 9. tells me NO. no rules; just sex...and lots of it (exact words ) 10. GUESS WHAT : I was posting everyday on sites to get over this jerk ...trying to understand why he couldnt love me?? but hello; he just wanted to BED me.it became so bloody apparent today. i couldnt see it all this while. I was blinded by an image i had created about him. Just wanted everyone to know; how kind God has been to show me the light. I am not even feeling bad about anything now. I am actually very glad....THANK GOD!!! I am so relieved.
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