EmperorR Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 After I told her I'm not interested in friends. "hey haven heard from you in forever:), how are you doing?" Part of me just wants to delete the text message (I don't know her number of by heart) and just act like I never received it and continue Nc. Part of me wants to wait till after work and just message I'm fine hope everything is good with you Dammit why couldn't she just leave me alone, I mean she was there for me when no one was after my ex fiancé left me but that's in the past. Ga
sotired Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Delete it. Nothing good will come of answering it.
PinkRibbon Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Delete. Delete. Delete. Please for your sake just delete it.
bluechocolate Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Is she aware that you've decided to go no-contact ? If so, delete the message & block her number. If not, tell her & then block her number.
Author EmperorR Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 Yes I told her i'm not interested in being friends, anyways I decided to delete it, thank Gos I didn't cave.
jessicasilver Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 please delte it now!!!!! same thing happened to me after 14 days of nc he messaged me and i ended up messaging back thinking maybe there was still hope in the relationship, however there was not... he only wanted to see if i would respond to him and show how much i still cared!! it hurt me because after healing so much i was dragged back to how i felt on day one!!! just ignore it, if she really wants you back she would text you again and again!!
9Lives Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Gosh you guys are so brave. I am so weak right now. I believe you guys are right. Just dont answer until you are stronger. Then it will be fine.
Author EmperorR Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 I'm not strong I would have cracked these past 15 days if I knew her number, it was so hard to delete the text as I know she probably won't contact me again Ah well Day 15 of nc
PinkRibbon Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 And soon you'll be on day 16. One day at a time. You have told her how you feel. She wants to be with you she would come right out and say it. Wouldn't you say that to her? She would fight for what she wants which should be you. Is she fighting?
Author EmperorR Posted April 28, 2009 Author Posted April 28, 2009 Well now the ex is jealous as hell, because I talk to her best friend every day (not about her though), and we met for coffee, and she found out today. Ah well.
Blah Toolz Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 Hey Emperor, I usually check out your posts and I just wanted to give you props for doing a good job on your no contact. I agree with everyone else, don't cave in for that little 'breadcrumb,' as Paperchase would call it. Ignore it and keep moving on.
Author EmperorR Posted April 28, 2009 Author Posted April 28, 2009 WEll i just broke nc, the ex text me like 10 times, how shes crying in pain blah blah, because im not respecting her by talking to her best friend WTF I got pissed and told her to leave me alone, you dumped me you no longer have a say of what goes on in my life or who I can communicate with. "Im hurt, is that hard to understand? breaking up with you is going to be one of those things i live with for the rest of my life, wondering if it was the stupidest thing to do,. Of Course I dont want my friend of 10 + years getting close to you" I just want to reply wiht a explicit you
BackonTrack2 Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 whats wrong with these people who break up with you and then try and be friends? lol i'm one of those people and well, honestly its NEVER about the other person, its about THEM. its funny to read your thread though, man i'm going on 1 year no contact. how far i've come only to realize i return and everything is the same, except the whore is no longer with me.
Art_Critic Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 Silence can be deafening .... Treat her to some
Chinook Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 Do. Not. Respond. I guarantee you, if you do, this will spiral and cause you more pain. Trust me, I know what I'm talking about.
PinkRibbon Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 I was just wondering what makes a person want to text you after they dumped you? Is it a certain type of person? Shoot take her friend to dinner or a movie or something. She can not and should not tell you what to do. She lost that right when she dumped you.
Author EmperorR Posted April 28, 2009 Author Posted April 28, 2009 I hate her, funny when I said yeah we can be friends it was ok me being friends with her ex, but as soon as I cut her out now I'm disrespecting her. Reason one why I'm changing my number.
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