vessv6l Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 For the purpose of this thread i shall refer to the ex as icequeen. Thought id check icequeens FB today, a bad idea i know. And what do i see, shes changed her status to in a relationship with that **** head she betrayed me with. Just validates my thoughts that i didnt/dont mean any thing to her. Saw some people yesterday that spent some time with her and apparenyly she was asking all the questions about me. Wants to get a pic of my tattoo, thinks that her and i are on speaking terms or at least will be soon. This chick is on DRUGS!! Literally she smokes weed like its going out of fashion, so does her new ****head too. Why the **** would i want to talk to a ****ing no honour, only cares about herself cold hearted bitch?!?!!??! **** i hope sooo much that this thing falls apart in front of her eyes. I will laugh soooo hard. Not holding my breath though. I want to write her an email telling her shes a ****en slut, has no honour and that i hope she fails at everything. Probably not a good idea but. How is it this stupid ****en girl has made me feel so worthless? I bought this slut a 1200 dollar cat FFS! And she ****en betrays me?! I dont know who is more stupid her or me
TaraMaiden Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 You are sincerely asking? You. For checking up on her, for still holding onto the anger, for permitting this relationship, now gone, to still have an effect on you. we buy things for the ones we love. we buy gifts. So what? The cat will die. She will have to cope with vet's bills, you won't. you sound very angry. To be angry with something over which you have no power, has the same effect as though we loved it with all our heart. It owns us. it inhabits us and governs us. You know what to do. Drop the anger and let it all go. And stop checking, unless of course you wish to still continue stabbing yourself in the eye with the stick.
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Dude... At the end of the day, why do you even care. down the line she'll cheat on him too or he'll do it to her. Your young, enjoy life and live to the fullest. You dont have to deal with her madness anymore. The grass aint always greener. So what you do is erase her from the facebook profile and block all information. Forget about her and forge forward.
jellybean Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Hi vessv61... You are going through the anger stage...very normal. It's all part of the healing process. This stage will pass. Chin up, hun....
Author vessv6l Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 Taramaiden you are spot on. i know it but i wanted to let some anger out. I stumbled across this wonderful site a few weeks back and found i could write down things here and get unbiased, brutaly honest advice. Im ok now, i was angry for a moment and wrote my post but im ok now. Been hitting the weights and am looking quite good in my humble opinion. Starting to training in rotarywing tomorow. Building a gorgeous house. I seemingly am at the lowest point laying a solid foundation for a great future. The past is history
EmperorR Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Let it out man, I know exactly how it feels my ex fiance stole my cat, cheated on me, used me SCREW HER you can do better, soon you won;'t be angry and you won't care but for now let it out
Author vessv6l Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 Stole your cat? thats ****ed man. Yeah this cat i bought her was a gorgeous little animal. I really love that little thing. Price didnt matter because i knew she would love it, she wanted this particular breed since she was young. I knew it would make her feel good and she had just lost another cat recently before i got it for her. Hmm she forgot about that quite quickly it seems Oh yeah paid for her to have her wisdom teeth out 1 week before she broke it off with me, another 1200 dollars. But again i did it because i loved her and she promised to pay me back. Dont care about the money really. I try to look at it as though it cost me 1200 to find out she was a ****head **** i hope i find someone i want to do these things and more for again
sotired Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 What kind of cat cost $1200? People that smoke pot every day are pretty much worthless anyway. You got lucky getting rid of her.
Author vessv6l Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 bengal pedigree. I would have paid more for it, thats how much i wanted to get it for her. Yea shes digging herself a hole. Too bad the person who was there for 3 years and always helped her out of it doesnt want anything to do with her anymore. Shes not my problem now
PinkRibbon Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 I know you miss her. Anger can be healing also in a way. So come on here and fuss and make a noise anytime you want. We are pretty much all in the same boat or have been there. A daily pot head? No way, not a good thing. Stay far away from that. You exercise and take care of yourself you don't need that junk. FB and myspace are the devils playground hahahahaha erase her form your page. Heck I deleted my whole myspace page until I get better. No sense in giving in to temptation. She doesn't realize what she had. So keep working out and ignore her. You will get better and some who really makes you happy.
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