redant Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Is it ok to flirt a bit when your so is not around? Not leading anyone on just having fun say at a party dancing and talking with someone nothing more.
Trialbyfire Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 You and your guy should decide what your relationship boundaries are. For some people, this would be tantamount to cheating. For others, this would be no big deal. It depends on what your intent is and if you feel the need to hide it from your man.
Sam Spade Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Yes, it's okay if you're a ho . There is absolutely nothing wrong with talking to other people and having fun as long as it's not of the sexually suggestive variety. Even if you have no intention to act on it, it's still disrespectful.
carhill Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 If you're in your mid 30's and asking for advice about when to have sex, I'd say to refrain from "flirting".
Just Angel Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 My thought is... that if its something I cant/shouldnt do in FRONT of SO, then I shouldnt do it behind him.
Author redant Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 Yea I feel it was a bit disrespectful and I did it because I don't know how he feels about me. I feel like why should I be so loyal to someone who I don't know sees me as someone special. We are close but he isn't thinking of settling down as or wanting to. I just feel as if he is not willing to make a commitment of marriage to me why must I be so loyal to him? Or at least think of me in the future he doesnt think weve been together long enough for that to even cross his mind. I think I have alot to offer. I want to settle down have a family and he does not so why should I be so loyal? I did not do anything intimate but it was disrespecful.
Author redant Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 I feel that he is getting all he wants, but I am not. Does that make sense?
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 I feel that he is getting all he wants, but I am not. Does that make sense? Have you talked to him about this?
Author redant Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 I would feel angry yes. I have told him what I want and he's not thinking the same he likes things how they are which I can understand since we've been together 5 months but we are both in our late 30's. I like things how they are too but I will want more I'd like to work together with someone to build a future. Anyway yea I think he knows.
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