Donarudo88 Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 I was going through some things tonight and I know how to deal with my problems and face the inevitably of whatever is going on in my life but my g/f can't. Which isn't what the problem is. She always feels bad when she can't help me feel better or do things to prevent them in the first place. I always tell her not to beat herself up about things she doesn't have control over. Tonight was also one of those nights she started beating her self up and so on and I told her I would get through it and she need not worry her self. Well I was lying and she knew it and it was very obvious, but I still didn't expect her to worry her self. 1 hour later I call her and she starts crying and saying she's sorry the minute she answers the phone. At first I thought it was her just... being her but then I noticed it getting a bit excessive. My g/f doesn't drink much and I know when she does. I kept asking her why she kept apologizing just as a sobriety test if you will. She couldn't give me a straight/meaningful response. Being obviously drunk she confessed to drinking and told me it was because she was having a hard time dealing with what was going on in MY life... MY life. Not hers. I immediately called bull***** because my g/f isn't a drinker 1, and 2 she only drinks when she's in a good mood and feels like throwing a few back. I literally have to beg her to drink with me on my nights off. Not that it's really relevant but when I asked her what she had been drinking she told me 2 beers and her favorite drink (Bailey's Irish creme). Maybe it's me but she just across as a bit insensitive than usual and was trying to pass off her obviously being buzzed/borderline drunk as pity or whatnot. So she gets mad and says she can't believe I would think that and all these other accusations. I thought for a second what if she was telling the truth and maybe I'm coming across as selfish and insensitive. Then I came to my senses. Of course shes's not. I know her. Now I'm not worried about anything else (cheating, carelessness) because she's in the comfort of her home with family and friends and I know nothing would happen anyway. But I'm worried one day she may be in that environment and she may not want to tell me she's drinking because she knows what my reaction may be and I don't want to feel like that's my fault when I was only calling it how I saw it. Anyways she's calling my phone right now as I type so I'm looking fwd to some great response/insight whatever. Later.
TaraMaiden Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 I would reply, but I am still not completely sure what your issue is.... she drinks too much? She doesn't really drink and pretends she is drunk? She is hypersensitive? Could you be more specific please, about what you would like 'response/insight' on...? Thank you... _/l\_
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