SummerLady Posted April 26, 2009 Posted April 26, 2009 My ex is always begging for me to take him back, even now. I just found out he is dating someone he knew from where he grew up. I found out through a very reliable source. He just asked me back the other day. So I called him and said why are you asking me back when you are actively dating Karen. He said oh my how did you find this out. I said that is not important, why are you asking me back if you are involved with someone?? Now we are divorced, he started to get real upset that I found out he was dating. Weird, like that ruined his chance, ah NO!! I said listen we are done, you are dating, do you think its fair to be beggin me back every other day. This girl you are dating would not appreciate it. And with that he threw a fit and was almost in tears that I knew he was dating and all this crap. Huh?? Lost. I have made it Crystal Clear that we are over and yeah the divorce part is pretty legal. Where am I losing this person. I swear I have never ever lead him on, once we were done we were done 100% from the seperation. Anyone?????????
delajoonal Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 SummerLady... ONE WORD: REGRET! he regrets EVERYTHING he did wrong...divorce. BUT it seems HE might have a bit of an addiction...WOMEN.. keep strong girl friend! we are ALL proud of you here...you keep me and so many others inspired too! p.s. don't even asnwer his calls anymore, let it go to voicemail... then YOU can decide if you wanna talk or hear what he has to say and WHEN.
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Why are you still talking to this doushebag??? He's dating someone but still trying to get you into the sack? WTF? leave him alone, better yet tell him to shove off!
Author SummerLady Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 Why are you still talking to this doushebag??? He's dating someone but still trying to get you into the sack? WTF? leave him alone, better yet tell him to shove off! Chrome you are so right, he is such a FK Head, always was. I have kids with him or I would never talk to him ever again. But when he starts his want you back speech I will hang up on him. All it does is reinforce that I should have never married him, what a poor choice on my part. Dumb!!! How about my regret now, ahhhhhhhhh...Ok had to vent. Thanks
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 Chrome you are so right, he is such a FK Head, always was. I have kids with him or I would never talk to him ever again. But when he starts his want you back speech I will hang up on him. All it does is reinforce that I should have never married him, what a poor choice on my part. Dumb!!! How about my regret now, ahhhhhhhhh...Ok had to vent. Thanks Yeah but right now you need to do a strong 180. Only communicate if it's for the kids. Stay strong and stay away from him, cultivate your own hobbies, float in different circles and learn to grow as a human being. You'll get it in time. Just because your divorced doesnt mean your life is over. You start over and make your life better.
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