kismat Posted April 26, 2009 Posted April 26, 2009 So, i've been with my boyfriend for two years now... things are great with us... on some levels, i think he's the one... we both support each other and encourage each other to go further professionally... we both value the same things, we take care of each other and love each other so much.. i could completely see us being happy together... so the thing is (and i don't want to sound immature - we're both late 20's)... lately, i am just not into the sex anymore... its been going on for a while actually.. i'd say since the start of the year. I just haven't been in the mood.. and when he kisses me, i kinda just don't enjoy it :S... i'm trying to take the negative thoughts out of my head.. but its like i don't find him sexy anymore like i used to... I used to be the one initiating things... even he has noticed that i'm not into things anymore, and i don't know what it is... we try to spice things up.. but its like its just not there anymore... anyone ever been in a similar situation!??!
jerbear Posted April 26, 2009 Posted April 26, 2009 Have you two been "dating" as in having a date night recently? No cell phone, going to a hotel room, no worries, no crackberries, etc... What about shared interests and things you two want to do? Does one of you two want to try something and both of you actually go do it? These are good ways to spice it up a little.
carhill Posted April 26, 2009 Posted April 26, 2009 Well, generally, do men turn you on? Any more experiences like you had with the female co-worker?
mental_traveller Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 i think he's the one... He isn't. If he was "the one", then you would be saying "I know he's the one", not "I think he's the one".
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