surgngnl Posted April 26, 2009 Posted April 26, 2009 i have come to the conclusion that if he wanted to be with you, he would move mountains to do so. anything less is an indication that he's not next to you, by your side. you deserve someone who's right there with you, holding your hand, ready to step forward in time with you. don't accept anything less. haven't you been so into someone that you put aside hesitations of things that you know are risky, that are a bit forward, but you feel necessary to share with the object of your affection because of the deep, wholly encompassing way you feel? well, yeah, that should be happening on the other end too. meet in the middle. you give, they give. when you know that you love someone and want them in your life, you try to make it known by putting your bruised, scared self out there. they should do the same. the fear they won't fall is part of the game, but once you see that they aren't falling, back away gently knowing that you did what you felt was necessary despite any apprehension that you may have felt doing so. know that it was worth it - it was worth more than ever not knowing.
Chinook Posted April 26, 2009 Posted April 26, 2009 Thanks for this. I needed to see something like this just now. You're right, it was worth it. It did make me feel better knowing I still can put myself forward. Thankyou.
PinkRibbon Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Yes I am so into this person that I would have moved the sun if I could for him just to get him back. I professed my love with tears while all the time he is not even looking at me. I put myself out there to let him know how important this relationship was to me and how important he is to me. Only to be shuned and tossed out like I don't matter, Like I don't count. Like I am not worthy. You are right if he felt the same he would move a mountain to be next to me and try and work this out. No one that walks away from a relationship without a second glance does not deserve you. He would talk to me and tell me the truth and we could have another chance. SOmeone who won't give a relationship a second chance was never in the realtionship in the first place.
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