Kylee Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 Okay, I'm not sure if I'm reading too much into this or what and could use some advice. I was suppose to go on a date tonight with this guy....this was our first date. A few days ago I asked him if we could reschedule for next weekend because stupid me got my dates mixed up and I actually had something planned for tonight. I felt horrible for this because it was a stupid mistake on my part. He was cool about it and said it was no problem. Anyway my original plans fell through so I figured I would let him know and see if he was possibly still interested in meeting tonight which he was. So we scheduled to meet around 6. I didn't find out my plans fell through until yesterday so it was really last minute. I left him a message yesterday afternoon explaining everything to him but he did not get my message until late last night and after having a few drinks. We talked a bit last night which is when we arranged everything. We joke around a lot and when I saw him online this morning I jokingly asked him.....so you backed out on me yet? His response: yes and no. Well I wasn't expecting this at all. He said no I haven't backed out on seeing you but yes for tonight. He said he is only backing out because the cookout he is going to today starts at 4 and although he really wants to see me he didn't want to be rude and leave the cookout early. He apologized for the time totally slipping his mind. Now I don't know if he really did get mixed up on the times last night when we were arranging all of this since he was a bit intoxicated, or if it really did just totally slip his mind? Granted, I have no right to judge since I basically rescheduled on him and then at the last minute told him our plans were still on. I'm just wondering if this is really due to his plans which is totally fine, or if he is just blowing me off? I said to him some other time then? He said yes for sure. No new date was scheduled. It was just kind of left out in the open. I feel since he canceled that he should be the one to reschedule. We talked a bit more until I had to go and he said I'll talk to you later. I am just a little bummed out because I was really looking forward to tonight. I am even more bummed because I don't know if this is just his way of blowing me off so to speak? What are some of your thoughts on this?
bluechocolate Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 You cancelled & rescheduled at the last minute & now he's doing the same so maybe he's just doing a little pay-back. Then again, maybe the confusion is as genuine as yours was. You're just going to have to wait & see I'm afraid, though this.. No new date was scheduled. It was just kind of left out in the open. .. is not a good sign.
loser101 Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 he left it open so what? don't assume the worst. yes it is his job to reschedule, wait for him to contact you and to do just that. I don't think you can say whether this is a good sign or not since you don't know whether he is just really relaxed about this kind of thing. if you don't hear from him for a week THEN worry.
Author Kylee Posted April 26, 2009 Author Posted April 26, 2009 Well I went to dinner and saw a movie by myself tonight.....even got some shopping done and had a pretty decent time. I didn't want to waste the night by staying at home alone sulking. I am still kind of bummed that he canceled though because I think we could of had a really good time if given the chance. Okay, well I was in the middle of typing this post about how I think he is playing games with me when he contacts me. He apologized again and wants to reschedule for next weekend. I agreed, so we will see how it goes. I guess maybe I just read too much into it. I don't know, he is just hard to read sometimes.
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