violeta09 Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 :eek:Its been 17 days since I've seen him or had any communication from him. Its getting easier day by day. I know this thing between us should have never started. If we would have left it the way it once was, we would still be friends. He should work on his marriage like I intend to work on mine. We both have lots of history with our spouses. He says his wife is a good woman and my hubby is a good guy too. We are working on getting back what we lost over the years. I honestly hope he does the same. Cheating is never the solution. I am certain with enough time my feelings for this other guy will fade. What a way to learn a lesson!!
steve38 Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 You gotta be honest with yourself here. Are you back with hubby just because it didn't work out with the other guy? Or did you really learn a lesson? Sounds like you were looking for a bigger, better deal and it fell through so you came back to reliable hubby. Certainly not condemning you for this, as most women have done the same thing. Hope you figure out what you want and everything works out for you
Author violeta09 Posted April 25, 2009 Author Posted April 25, 2009 my hubby and I were living together like friends. Recently we both decided to give our marriage a second try. This is part of the reason I cut the other guy loose. Thanks for not judging....
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