Miguelrg Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 Okay guys, i have other post which is explains the break up but basically i've stuck at no contact for 18 days now, she has texted me saying thank you for a book i sent her a few weeks ago but that's it. we've been broken up since 18th feb and i left Australia to come home on the 13th march. It's not the standard relationship as i lived there, she lived here and so on but after 18 days i feel like i'm start to re-gain some of myself back, its weird going from being with a girl you think is 'the one' to back to being single with no worries, it's not nice but it's also very good in terms of gaining your independence back, i aim to go NC until the contacts me but i am worried because tomorrow is my birthday i'll be emotionally set back if she does message me but i'll also be sad if she doesn't, does that make sense? anyway anyone about to start NC keep your head up it only gets easier and anyone else some kind words would be appreciated in regards to this or my other post Thank you
Twist Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 I'm glad its working for you. Keep your head held up high on your birthday ! Its a time to celebrate and get out there with friends and hit up a few social places. Keep your mind off her.
EmperorR Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 she probbaly will send you a text like happy birthday don't read into it more than it is, then delete the text and go on with your life:).
Author Miguelrg Posted April 26, 2009 Author Posted April 26, 2009 so she didn't message for my birthday should i be hurt is that better? its like someone who part of my life for a year, told me she wanted to marry me has gone to just not giving a crap at all. i'm almost starting to hate her for the way she's treated me
EmperorR Posted April 26, 2009 Posted April 26, 2009 so she didn't message for my birthday should i be hurt is that better? its like someone who part of my life for a year, told me she wanted to marry me has gone to just not giving a crap at all. i'm almost starting to hate her for the way she's treated me on one side it's good, other side I can see how it sucks. My birthday is coming up shortly, part of me hopes both my exes will send a text, part of me doesn't, especially my last one if thre is no reconcillation it's better to not waste my time with a happy bday
Author Miguelrg Posted April 26, 2009 Author Posted April 26, 2009 you really lose either way if the ex you still love either says happy birthday or doesn't if she does it means she was thinkin about you and is human but can also set you back emotionally if she doesn't it means she either doesn't care or doesn't want to show she does Ex's Suck!
Bleuroze25 Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Well first off, Happy Belated Birthday! I fully understand your pain, my birthday was this past saturday (25th) and i was really stressed out wondering if i would hear from him. Well I did, the text message read "well before i got out and drink to much, i wanted to wish you a happy birthday, hope you have fun and be safe" part of me thinks that it would have honestly been better off if i had received nothing at all.
Author Miguelrg Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 Why thank-you, you too It's still annoying with my ex because we had a joint bank account in Australia and about 2400 pounds is still in it, we're having problems transferring it so NC was broke because of this. She is so selfish i'm slowly losing respect for her, i had to delete her off facebook because i seen her chatting to guys and i quote she said ' i'm a good girl now, well most of the time ' That made me sick, she's met 2 guys since we broke up, one was a 19 year old barman and one a 30+ year old dude, she's 26 and is pretted f*cked up really! i don't know what my point is, she just hurts me i just want to forget
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