penguins33 Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 K so this girl and I broke up about a month ago, a week after i messaged her on facebook and I straight up told her how she did me wrong and we got into a huge fight and she made it clear she did not care. About 3 hours later she called me and said she obviously did care if she was thinking about the situation the whole time since she got off facebook and i said agreed slowly with what she was saying but i still didn't agree with alot of the things she said. She told me she hadn't found anyone better than me and that she couldn't see herself liking anyone else, she also told me anyone else she would end up would be meaningless.She then asked me if she wanted to be friends and I said "ok", after that she said she was gonna go cause she was wasting my time, I said she wasn't then she said she was going to go anyways. Later that night she calls and says "I wanna read you something about us" I said ok but can you call back in 10 minutes because my friends on the phone and he needs a chance to say bye to whose on the other line. She said "ok" and hung up. She calls me back 10 minutes later but my friend had the phone and didn't answer (She calls from a private number so i can't call back since her mom changed her number) After that she stopped talking to me and I haven't talked to her since, But nicely i heard about how she was going out with another guy while she called me that one time and how they broke up afew days later because apparently she liked to "show him off" too much. Afew days later she apparently likes this guy named Ryan who i know but am not exactly close with. Three days ago I saw her for the first time at school in a long time, she called me twice but i was outside and I forgot my phone inside (I have bad luck) And she hasn't called me since. I want to get over her and thought I was, but I'm in love with this girl no matter how many times she slaps me in the face with the things she does. She hasn't talked to me since that night and is ignoring me now. I don't want to be the first one to talk to her again (I'd rather her talk to me first) but this feeling is getting worse everyday. What should I do?
Twist Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 Continue what you're doing like you said, I don't want to be the first one to talk to her again (I'd rather her talk to me first) but this feeling is getting worse everyday. What should I do? You seem sure what about you want. To me it seems like she has no idea what she wants. Give it time, give her a little space to think things through. Even if you start talking to her now what will become of it? What do you except to happen? If anything I could see it just hurting you more, because obviously you haven't taken care of all your wounds. No point in hurting yourself. Mind you, I'm no expert in this field, I'm too am trying to heal my wounds and hate this feeling of not being with my ex =(
Author penguins33 Posted April 27, 2009 Author Posted April 27, 2009 thanks, for your reply i appreciate it ^^
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