dogtown Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 Yah, yah, yah...I live with two other girls and I'm starting to find one of my roommates super attractive. I flirt with her all the time and I think we have great chemistry. Then I see her around other guys and she acts the same way she does around me. She just has a flirtly personality. Moreover, I overhear her making comments to her friends that she sees me "as a brother." Ahhh! She's thrown me in the friend/family zone! (By the way ladies, never say this around guys. No dude wants to hear it) So, I'm torn. If I make a move or confess my feelings then I run the risk of freaking her out and throwing off the good vibe in the house (and I can't move out because the housing is part of a program we're in and we're in a foreign country). On that same token, I'd hate to not make a move on someone this cool. I almost wish I didn't have feelings for her, it would make things so much easier. Has anyone ever been in a situation like this? What did you do?
yadungon Posted April 26, 2009 Posted April 26, 2009 first of all are you m/f? if you male, how you became a roommate with 2 girls [same bedroom? ]. What program is it ? my advise is that one day the program will end, before like 2-3 day before program end make your move. con: get humiliate for just for 2 days. then you 2 would see each another again
endorphins Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 heres a secret from a girl.. when we say we love someone like a brother, it means we are more than comfortable with the guy. If I were you, Id ask her out for an evening alone. Have your laughs, and then tell her how you feel. Being a flirty person is one of the best type of girlfriend. If shes the one for you, then you get more than flirty assuming you know being flirty with most people is harmless fun. good luck, bro
kizik Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 If she's already referred to you as a "brother" type, you're done. Out. No chance in hell she'll EVER like you like that.
WTRanger Posted April 28, 2009 Posted April 28, 2009 You need to let her know. You need to hear it from her how she sees you. She could be using the "brother" thing to her friends as a way of deflecting their inquiries about the two of you. If I were you, I'd go for it. You won't regret it regardless of the outcome. It'll suck thousands of times worse to keep this one in.
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