Sublime333 Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 I'm going out with this guy and his friends tonight and I'm feeling really uneasy about the whole thing. This is the point where I usually self sabotage the whole thing by thinking negatively (ie does he really like me or am I just a friends with benefits?) Whenever I think negatively like this I can't help but project it on my face and no body wants to hang with a negative nancy! Any of you have this problem? Any tips for confidence boosting? THank you!
sugarmomma Posted April 27, 2009 Posted April 27, 2009 Just know that until you change the way you think you will never be able to change your life. Yur thinking is a very powerful force and if yu continue to exude negative energy you know what to expect. I would suggest doing some research or finding some books on self esteem and confidence. Be patient with yourself since it is not an overnight process. Just go out and have fun and try not to talk too muc or too little.
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