miss-jem-bishop Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 I have met this really amazing guy about a month ago, so far so good. he lives 2 hours away from me, which isnt too bad ... when he is down he stays with a friend, so were taking it pretty slow. untill.... wednesday he told me something that more than anything shocked me and made me disapointed in him, i felt hurt and upset but more cause i was angry about the whole thing... he told me that tuesday night he has slept with some girl after having a few to drink, he said he is never normally like this and wouldnt dream of doing it again as he thinks im amazing, at the moment it is on my mind quite alot but not really sure what too think about it anymore! he said that everything happens for a reason and we learn from mistakes but is his mistake too big to forgive him ?? iv talked to alot of people and some have said im not in a realtionship with him im only seeing him so he hasnt cheated so i should take the benifit of the doubt and see how it goes and what happened.... just want some advive.... =) x
KikiW Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 Well, to me it sounds like you were at least STARTING a relationship, and he "confessed" that he slept with some other girl (always while totally wasted, right? Like privates just take on lives of their own or something ) and that he would never dream of doing it again because he likes you so much... Maybe you weren't an exclusive couple, but I can totally see that putting a huge wet cloth over whatever you were thinking you might have with him. If he thought you were so amazing, I don't think his johnson would have drunkenly slipped into someone else. Personally, I'd be like thanks, but no thanks mister. If you can't control your d*ck, you must not think very much of me. Wonder what he told the girl he banged... (Sorry, as my earlier thread shows, I am PMSing, so tact is not my strong point right now.)
Miguelrg Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 Sounds like it would only be a matter of time before he did it again! No matter how drunk you are, you still have sense when doin the no pants dance! You deserve more
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