dakotamaiden Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 we talk on the phone sexy talk sometimes. we both enjoy it. now hes renewing his relationship with god. which it great. i beleive in god and pray. now he says we have to be good. but sometimes we still talk sexy. how do i handle this i dont want to lose his friendship or feel he cant talk or be around me because of what we do. i want to get close to him in a good way . how do i do it???
carhill Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 Why do you feel sex and God are mutually exclusive? Go to church with him. Grab his ass whilst standing next to him praying.
Author dakotamaiden Posted April 24, 2009 Author Posted April 24, 2009 he thinks he has to turn his life around and be good and obedient
carhill Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 To whom? One can be all those things and generous and loving too and still be sexual. Sex (and sex talk) isn't "dirty". If that's what they're telling him, he's going to the wrong church. Take it from a former altar boy
Author dakotamaiden Posted April 28, 2009 Author Posted April 28, 2009 what if he feels hes doing wrong if we have sex. its happened a couple of times but not lately. we are friends so i suppose you would call it casual sex. which we both enjoyed.
carhill Posted April 29, 2009 Posted April 29, 2009 Do you feel casual sex without significant intimacy and/or a committed relationship is unhealthy? Does he? Perhaps we've found the crux of the issue. Personally, I have no interest in having casual sex with women. It has nothing to do with God Talk to him about that.
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