Mydish1 Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 So the other day I was having a discussion with my roommate about this super cute girl he's friends with and I've met, however she isn't sexy so therein lacks his attraction for her. In a nutshell we agreed she's not sexy. I guess for most people sexy = hot. And someone can be pretty/cute without being sexy. I think from a guy's standpoint, it's easy to pinpoint how a girl can be sexy. If the case is she lacks sex appeal, there are things that could be modified about her personality, looks, clothes that do make her sexy. How do ladies define sexy for a guy. Is it how he carries himself? his clothes? his status? his personality? his intelligence? his confidence? his weight/height? his looks/charm? the image he portrays? Is it just one thing or a culmination of several of the above, what is your idea of a sexy man?
tkgirl Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 So the other day I was having a discussion with my roommate about this super cute girl he's friends with and I've met, however she isn't sexy so therein lacks his attraction for her. In a nutshell we agreed she's not sexy. I guess for most people sexy = hot. And someone can be pretty/cute without being sexy. I think from a guy's standpoint, it's easy to pinpoint how a girl can be sexy. If the case is she lacks sex appeal, there are things that could be modified about her personality, looks, clothes that do make her sexy. How do ladies define sexy for a guy. Is it how he carries himself? his clothes? his status? his personality? his intelligence? his confidence? his weight/height? his looks/charm? the image he portrays? Is it just one thing or a culmination of several of the above, what is your idea of a sexy man? everyone's idea of sexy is going to be very different.. as in you and your friend saying the super cute girl is not sexy... I'm sure there's some guys out there that would find her very sexy! Sexual attraction is a very complex thing... but here's MY idea of what's "sexy" in a guy: CONFIDENCE!!! a guy who knows who he is and what he wants is very sexy! he can be a hot rocker bad boy... or a total computer geek, but if that's who he is and he knows it, then I'm attracted! there's probably 100 other things I find sexy about guys.. but confidence is key!
Isolde Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 More and more, for me, it's become a certain warmth in a guy that's sexy. This is a pretty rare thing to find, genuine warmth, and lends itself to attraction when it gleams through his eyes.
BlueEyedGirl Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 To me - men that are gentle and kind are sexy. I also like men that give me full attention when I speak and laugh at my lame jokes. Genuine compliments are sexy too, but I hate fake compliments. Basically if a guy makes me feel good about myself, I will want to be around him. It helps if he is somewhat physically attractive too. Also, sparkly, expressive eyes and animated face.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 When their eyes light up and they give me the most gorgeous smile. That to me is very sexy.
Ruby Slippers Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 A potent cocktail of intelligence, integrity, adventurousness, fun, creativity, initiative, and sensitivity. And a big smile always helps.
colosseum Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 A potent cocktail of intelligence, integrity, adventurousness, fun, creativity, initiative, and sensitivity. And a big smile always helps. Wow, don't be too modest about your demands now, RubySlippers. But confidence and warmth, I should remember those...although ladies, you wouldn't want warmth to the extent of gross supplication, right?
spookie Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 Confidence: the the genuine, innate variety that allows for the freedom not to have to spell out accomplishments, or hobbies, or qualities, when speaking to someone new. (Braggery is a huge turn-off for me.) Intensity. This quality is hard to explain, but all the guys I've fallen for have had it. Laid-backed-ness doesn't do much for me.
Ruby Slippers Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 Wow, don't be too modest about your demands now, RubySlippers. I have had all of that in each of the guys I've been serious with. Those qualities define sex appeal for me, and they are also qualities that I strive to embody myself.
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