twicebitten Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 Well, tomorrow I've been DREADING because it's my ex-BF's b-day!! We were suppossed to be going away to celebrate ... SH*T-head that totally broke my heart!! But now I get an email today that my ex-husband (1st SH*T-head to rip my heart out)! Is coming into town, spur of the moment (he hightailed it to another state when he abandoned my daughter & I three years ago after 15 year marriage)!! AND he'd like to see our daughter!! OF COURSE I'm going to let him see her (It's been 10 MONTHS)!! I'm thrilled for my daughter to see her daddy!! BUT it's going to be like a double-living-hell for me tomorrow!! What are the odds that I'd have to face HIM when I'm most vulnerable!?? It WAS always my ex-BF who stood-up for me & supported me when my ex-h tried to bully me ... now they BOTH do!! GREAT!! HELP ... I need support/encouragement to get through tomorrow!! THANK YOU! XO - TB -
UCLAMike Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 by the tone of your voice you already know what to expect and coming. I take comfort in knowing that you know you will be fine. Let the storm settle sister. You will be fine. Stay strong~
Author twicebitten Posted April 24, 2009 Author Posted April 24, 2009 They're comin in an hour (ex-H & his SL*T GF who he ran-off with while married to me)!! I'm nervous ... last time I had to see them (10 months ago) the GF started SH*T with ME!!?? Send calming-vibes my way!!! Thanks!! XO - TB -
trent Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 As long as you didn't put 10 lbs on in your waist, go with your head held high and be proud of yourself.Your raising your child alone i presume and thats not an easy task.
EmperorR Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 Be Strong, Look happy, wish you the best of luck.
Author twicebitten Posted April 24, 2009 Author Posted April 24, 2009 NO didn't gain 10 pounds ... lost 15!! So, that's GOOD! BUT I've got a skin infection (haven't had since he was around) ... I'm allergic to him!!! I could care less-for-him ... it's the young, dumb & MEAN Bi*CH he's with that bothers me!! Well, any time now ... I'm going to IGNORE ... ignore ... ignore HER ... for my daughter's sake!! In the past three years I've taken the high-road!! And I will continue to do so ... SHE'S the home-wrecker, not I! So, I don't know WHY to this-day that she's so threatened by me ... SHE has him ... good-ridence!!!!! And I still have my dignity (I think??) my intelligence (most of it) my inner/outer beauty (for my age) ... & no more of their DRAMA/heartache!! Now, I just need to remember to ... breathe!!!!!!!!! THANKS - TB -
hopesndreams Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 How old is your daughter? Is she old enough to just send out of your house when they arrive? Are you letting them into your house? Do you have to talk with them?
Author twicebitten Posted April 24, 2009 Author Posted April 24, 2009 .. it's OVER!!! DD's 11 .. she walked to their car ... I just had to ask him what time back! Wasn't sooo bad, but he had to look GOOD!?? UGH!! Well, I made sure so did I!!! God, it's hard ... even when you think you're OVER them ... seeing them still makes your heart-skip-a-beat!! SUCKS! I'm going to have a DRINK now!! LOL! XO - TB -
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