lazyhappylucky Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 I just want yallz opinion on this, First off, I am a woman, but I was talking to a male friend who told me that men see women as quote on quote "vicious, lying manipulators that use people to get what they want, and they will lie, cheat and steal. No matter what they always win because they have the one thing that guys want." I sort of agreed with this, some people do that, I do it sometimes subconsciously. Not all women, and it depends on the person, so it was partly offensive. I just want to hear you guys' point of view, especially the men.
Chrome Barracuda Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 In this day and age I think what he said does ring true, but not for every female on the planet. your going to have those good gems few and far in between. I've seen women use their sex and bodies to get what they wanted. I seen women use the lawes against others to get what they want. I seen alot of things that the claim does ring true. It's sad, but it is what it is. But I think it does depend on the women too. but on the flip side men do it too, in other ways.
kdark Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 Sounds like a thread title that Woggle or JerseyShortie would start... I've found a lot of women who do fit the quote that you posted, thinking that as a woman they had a right to treat sex as a commodity to be given to their male when he is "being good" or "buying them things.". It makes me sick to remember that I was in a relationship like that once. I remember that I once turned the tables on her by denying her sex when she was in the mood, she was not a happy camper.
carhill Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 I've met very few women in my 50 years on this planet who do not have at least an element of the OP. IMO, the problem is that they are socialized that way from the first time they wrap daddy around their finger as a little girl. Then they watch how mommy and daddy interact. In today's society, all I can say is whoa The only reason I can opine with some authority is I have met a few who personify the best of what women have to offer the world and I will never forget nor cease to admire them for bringing their light to mine and other's lives.
Trialbyfire Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 Okay, so one of your last threads was "men are so dense" and now women are all "vicious, lying and manipulative". Do you hate everyone?
IrishCarBomb Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 "vicious, lying manipulators that use people to get what they want, and they will lie, cheat and steal. No matter what they always win because they have the one thing that guys want." You heard him wrong. He was talking about terrorists, not women.
mr.dream merchant Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 You ever deny your GF sex? Oh jesus christ. All hell breaks loose. "ARE YOU CHEATING ON ME? AM I FAT? ARE YOU NOT ATTRACTED TO ME ANYMORE? IS OUR SEX BORING?" Lord jesus.
kdark Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 You ever deny your GF sex? Oh jesus christ. All hell breaks loose. "ARE YOU CHEATING ON ME? AM I FAT? ARE YOU NOT ATTRACTED TO ME ANYMORE? IS OUR SEX BORING?" Lord jesus. Very, very true. It's like some women just cannot fathom that there is a time when even men don't feel up for it, and there isn't some ulterior motive/hidden meaning behind it.
Citizen Erased Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 "vicious, lying manipulators that use people to get what they want, and they will lie, cheat and steal. No matter what they always win because they have the one thing that guys want." Stealing! Ah the icing on top of my vicious, lying, manipulating life. :bunny:
tkgirl Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 that's like saying "all men are lying, cheating bastards"... I guess if you choose to look only at the negative that's what you will find. I feel sorry for your "friend". this is really a pathetic post... I'm not sure why I'm even responding
Author lazyhappylucky Posted April 24, 2009 Author Posted April 24, 2009 Okay, so one of your last threads was "men are so dense" and now women are all "vicious, lying and manipulative". Do you hate everyone? did you read the thread or are you just being a bitch, and the last one applied to a personal situation, which I thought was just a smidgen too personal to go into detail until a little later.
Author lazyhappylucky Posted April 24, 2009 Author Posted April 24, 2009 You heard him wrong. He was talking about terrorists, not women. lol what do terrorists have that guys want?
Author lazyhappylucky Posted April 24, 2009 Author Posted April 24, 2009 that's like saying "all men are lying, cheating bastards"... I guess if you choose to look only at the negative that's what you will find. I feel sorry for your "friend". this is really a pathetic post... I'm not sure why I'm even responding that's exactly what I said! I said "Women may do that but we have good stuff too!"
kdark Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 lol what do terrorists have that guys want? 77 virgins.
Author lazyhappylucky Posted April 24, 2009 Author Posted April 24, 2009 Stealing! Ah the icing on top of my vicious, lying, manipulating life. :bunny: is it? I guess he meant stealing in a different way, admitably, I tend to take things but in small doses and things that I normally give back...in small doses. When I was in high school one morning I asked my brother for lunch money because my parents were away and he said no and slammed his door in my face, ever since then I've made it my mission to take 10 bucks from his wallet every week. He doesn't even notice anymore.
monkey00 Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 I cannot completely agree or completely disagree with the OP. People can only be manipulated (in this case the woman manipulating the guy) if they allow themselves to be. To broaden this even more, humans do it on a day to day basis. How else would be function as a society if we didn't cooperate in some way using manipulation? I can think of several women off the top of my head who are pretty damn good manipulators though, I think it's just the way they're wired.
carhill Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 I smiled at the young lady today at the DMV who gave me the eye test and found that my left corrected eye was weak and I couldn't read the chart with it . I didn't make excuses or complain. I just smiled and said "I need to take care of that. I'm glad we found out". And then smiled a bit more. She passed me. My overall vision is fine. Did I manipulate her? I was just being friendly She did have some beautiful brown eyes though.... Signals... That's what women do. I see them coming miles away
xpaperxcutx Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 The OP is being too general. Not all women are like that, just like not all men are saints. Can't we even try to get along? I had enough of the women bashing and the complainings here on LS.
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