CrashLanded87 Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 Alright well I don't know what to say. This may sound like a lame thing to make a thread about but I am clueless when it comes to stuff like this. I knew this girl from like August when we were on the same soccer team, and I thought I liked her but I didn't say anything because I didn't know what to say (see a pattern here?) and I just saw her again at my work for like the first time in like a month or two (I see her around sometimes) and I believe that I am really considering trying to go after her, except... I have no idea how to start talking to her again.... Any ideas?
Author CrashLanded87 Posted April 23, 2009 Author Posted April 23, 2009 nah i have moved on. That girl, hmmm i haven't talked to her since she left work... This was actually a couple months before her, and I just stopped talking to her after soccer, which now I think was a terrible idea...
BCCA Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 I know exactly how you feel, and I can give you some advice as someone who has the same problem. When you see some one youre attracted to, just go talk to them immedialtely, within 3 seconds. After that, youre just going to keep psyching yourself out. I know its too late for this one, but next time, just go - before your mind stops you! You can litterally say anything. I would start with 'hi, didnt you play soccer with me back in august?' and then go from there. Just be confident, and if it doesnt work, then it doesnt work, but there is not magic line to say to make sure she likes you.
Author CrashLanded87 Posted April 23, 2009 Author Posted April 23, 2009 nah i mean, I saw her onnnnn Monday? Which is when this got my mind gears moving.... We talked for a lil bit... but I had work to do.... But, this is what caused me to think.... We only talk when we see each other, and I wouldn't know how to just pop up again without getting the "wtf" reaction.... I mean, I got her number... myspace... etc... blah blah I just don't know the way to go about it is all....
BobSacamento Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 Yeah what BCCA said is a good plan. Say "Hi didn't we play soccer together blah blah." I'm kind of shocked this hasn't happened yet. Like what happened when you both saw each other? Blank stares? lol Also what's good is if your working you can keep it short and say "Hey, hate to cut this short but I have to get back to work, we should get together some time but I don't think I have your number." If you get the number your golden, if not move on.
Author CrashLanded87 Posted April 23, 2009 Author Posted April 23, 2009 I think i answered this above too, but just in case you didnt read it.... nah i mean, I saw her onnnnn Monday? Which is when this got my mind gears moving.... We talked for a lil bit... but I had work to do.... But, this is what caused me to think.... We only talk when we see each other, and I wouldn't know how to just pop up again without getting the "wtf" reaction.... I mean, I got her number... myspace... etc... blah blah I just don't know the way to go about it is all....
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