beautiful2see Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 i broke it off with my boyfriend, but now his going crazy on me, his been calling me like crazy, and had been leaving me very rude voicemails, he keeps telling me if he cant have me no one will.! its really freaking me out! i dont know what to do now!
xpaperxcutx Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 Have 911 on your speed dial, and lock your doors and windows. He sounds crazy.
Sibyl Vane Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 Changing your phone number would probably be a good place to start.
Author beautiful2see Posted April 23, 2009 Author Posted April 23, 2009 Have 911 on your speed dial, and lock your doors and windows. He sounds crazy. he wont stop calling me!, he said his on his way here!
Author beautiful2see Posted April 23, 2009 Author Posted April 23, 2009 Changing your phone number would probably be a good place to start. I'ma change it 2morrow!
Sibyl Vane Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 he wont stop calling me!, he said his on his way here! Then don't let him in. If he tries to break in, call the police.
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 You save EVERYTHING. Every shred of evidence. Save every single voicemail, every single text message. You make sure that your family or friends (whoever watches out for you) knows where you are at all times. If he does eventually do something criminal, you have all the texts/emails/voicemails to take to court and get a TRO (temp-restraining order). But do NOT let that fool you into thinking you're safe. Way too many crazies have walked right through ROs. It's more of just a legal protection to keep him from further harassing you via phone/electronics (because if he violates the RO at that point, you CAN call the cops). If you know anybody that knows self-defense, I'd highly recommend you learn some moves. If anything, I'd be finding anything and everything I could read online for self-defense. At least that's better than nothing. You said you had a brother - let him know what's going on. Brothers tend to be pretty protective (generalization...I hope yours is).
xpaperxcutx Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 he wont stop calling me!, he said his on his way here! Leave your apartment now and go stay at a friend's place whom he doesn't know.
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 he wont stop calling me!, he said his on his way here! How old is this kid, again? Try scaring the crap out of him - if he DOES show up, tell him you've called the cops. If he attacks your property in ANY WAY (banging hard on the door), CALL THE COPS.
Author beautiful2see Posted April 23, 2009 Author Posted April 23, 2009 How old is this kid, again? . His 26 years old, he came over last night, i called my brother and he came right away, but once he saw my brothers truck outside he left, this morning he came by again, and started hitting on the door, i told him if he didnt leave i was going 2 call the cops, he finally left, and i went outside 2 walk my dog, and i saw him, he was in his car!, so i went back inside, i called my bro again but his at work so i didnt want 2 worry him, but i called my friend and he came right away, and i guess my ex saw him and called me n left me a very mean voicemail!, he keeps saying he wants 2 fight my friend,, im so pissed off and worried, i feel like just calling the efin cops on him!
dreamergrl Posted April 23, 2009 Posted April 23, 2009 This is going to come across as extremely bitchy, but, if it's that bad, call the cops and quit talking about it.
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