avengedsevenfold Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 Ive Been in a Long Distance relationship for about 7-8 months now, everything was great at first, since i was only 16 then, but as ive grown older, a new emotion has gripped me, jealousy. Im afriad it will destroy the one thing i care about, my relationship, i am constantly bringing my woman to tears because sometimes i feel like she needs to feel the pain i feel, even though she doesnt intend me to feel it, i feel like a horrible person. WHY do i feel like this? Alot of friends and family have betrayed me in the past, is this the consequences of the after effect? I need advice quick to save whats left of my relationship, were fantastic when were together, but when were apart, i feel depressed and my job hangs in the balance of it! I sometimes let things get out of hand and conclude she may be cheating or constantly thinking of other men, even though she wouldnt, jealousy strikes, i even at one point got jealous of the past, and i feel ashamed, i cant control it. Any suggestions? thanks for reading.
Kaii Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 Buddy, this is not really about your relationship, this is about you and how you feel about yourself. People with low self esteem frequently have jealousy issues. So, what you need to do is work on that. If you truly thought that you were f*cking awesome and had self esteem coming out your ass, you wouldn't be worrying that your gf might be thinking about other guys when you weren't together. You would know that it would be her loss if she left you for someone else. You need to nip this in the bud while you are still young or else this will plague you throughout your entire adult dating life.
Author avengedsevenfold Posted April 22, 2009 Author Posted April 22, 2009 Ah, i see what you mean, confidence would help, but im not sure how to build it, if my other half couldnt, i dont think i myself would be able to, i spent countless years in vein trying to, and maybe my failure to do so has come back and hit me in the place that meant most to me. any tips? thanks for all advice my friend, it all helps.
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