mre87 Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 Hi all. I have some questions here. So a girl and I have been talking for a while. We hooked up at a party a little while ago, and we both felt something for each other. This last week has been kinda wierd for me. She told me that she needs to talk to me about somethings. The first thing is about a girl she thought I was intreasted in, I told her no I wasnt. Now its just like its extremely akward between us. I dont know what this means or what I should do next. Anyhelp would be apprecieated. Thanks
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 Ooooookay. I wonder if you could be a little more vague? How long have you known this girl? How old are the two of you? How did you meet? When you say "hooked up," what does that mean? (Because to a lot of people, that could mean we had sex at some party...) When she said she had "some things" to talk to you about - was it just the question from her about a girl you were interested? Or was there more to the conversation? Why did she ask about this other girl? Is she jealous? Do you hang out with this other girl that she talked about? Have you been on any dates with the girl you "hooked up" with? How often do you talk to the girl you "hooked up" with and how (phone, email, text, etc)? Sheesh. Need details to even begin to understand what you're talking about. Oh...and one more question - how do YOU know that she has feelings for you?
colosseum Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 Second above, but just talk to her and try to find out? A great way sometimes is just to be totally honest about the awkwardness, but bring it up by smiling and in a light way: "Hey, is it me or are things awkward? I don't want things to be."
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