beautiful2see Posted April 21, 2009 Posted April 21, 2009 I have been dating this guy for 3 months, everything is ok i guess, his sweet and all, but his so jelouse and doesnt like it when i go out with my girls, to top it all off his 2 years younger then me, and doesnt have a job, but is going 2 school, i met this other guy "my brtohers friend" his super nice, and respectful, and i never felt so loved before, his 3 years older then me , and he works, im confused on what 2 do, i dont know if i should stay with my boyfriend of 3 months, or go with the new guy? My boyfriend never introduced me to his family, and the other guy already did, and all his family and friends like me, and his sisters are always calling me to hang out and everything, plz im confused! I dont know who 2 pick??!
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 Well, it sounds like the older guy respects you more. But nobody can make this decision for you. You have plenty of good to say about the older guy...what is the younger guy doing for you that would make you want to stay with him? I'd rather be with a guy that makes me feel good about myself - not one that doesn't trust me (which would in turn make me feel like crap).
lazyhappylucky Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 I have been dating this guy for 3 months, everything is ok i guess, his sweet and all, but his so jelouse and doesnt like it when i go out with my girls, to top it all off his 2 years younger then me, and doesnt have a job, but is going 2 school, i met this other guy "my brtohers friend" his super nice, and respectful, and i never felt so loved before, his 3 years older then me , and he works, im confused on what 2 do, i dont know if i should stay with my boyfriend of 3 months, or go with the new guy? My boyfriend never introduced me to his family, and the other guy already did, and all his family and friends like me, and his sisters are always calling me to hang out and everything, plz im confused! I dont know who 2 pick??! you'd look like a major slut if you went out with his friend, well that's what he'd think. and his friend wouldn't date a girl who broke up with his buddy. maybe you could work around it somehow. idk I'd wait a while
stepka Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 The answer seems pretty obvious to me, and to you too. Maybe younger guy is more exciting, but older guy is more stable and will still be around in 10 years if you want him to be.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 This is where you weight out the pros and cons between younger guy and older guy. From your description, older guy is more respecting towards you, and sounds like a real gentlemen. Age is not the issue here, it's their characters you have to think about.
SoulSearch_CO Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 you'd look like a major slut if you went out with his friend, well that's what he'd think. and his friend wouldn't date a girl who broke up with his buddy. maybe you could work around it somehow. idk I'd wait a while WTH? She didn't say it was her BF's friend. It's her BROTHER'S friend.
Author beautiful2see Posted April 22, 2009 Author Posted April 22, 2009 Well, it sounds like the older guy respects you more. But nobody can make this decision for you. You have plenty of good to say about the older guy...what is the younger guy doing for you that would make you want to stay with him? I'd rather be with a guy that makes me feel good about myself - not one that doesn't trust me (which would in turn make me feel like crap). Yea your so right, and thanxs for the other people that answered my question, i jus got out of work, and while i was at work my boyfriend called and said he was going 2 come visit me, i told him he couldnt because i was busy," im a nurse and work wit mentally challanged n disabled" , he started yelling and everything, and then he said he was going 2 be outside till i got out, wtf? i think thats 2 much! i cant have any time by myself no more!!
Bejita463 Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 he started yelling and everything, and then he said he was going 2 be outside till i got out, Wow. That screams "restraining order" to me.
lazyhappylucky Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 WTH? She didn't say it was her BF's friend. It's her BROTHER'S friend. sorry I wrote it late, but it's still the same thing as for the ex. He's still think she was seing him behind his back, the root of jealousy is paranoia
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