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In short, I am trying to figure out the ideal way to ask a girl if she would be interested in a relationship with me. I do not want to be like other guys and simply just ask her, I am looking for a unique way to go about asking her.

So here is the situation: This girl approached me at school and asked for my friendship... a little out of the ordinary I know. I did not think anything of it at the time, and accepted it. I found her on myspace and added her as a friend, we started talking on their, then a.i.m, and then on the phone. After a few days we made plans to hang out, and play basketball. We flirted, etc.

I had asked her if she had a boyfriend, because I am not one to cause problems. She told me technically no, but at the same time she had interests in somebody, who shared the same feelings. So i thought nothing of it.

After we hung out a few times, she invited me over her house to make brownies, while her parents were away, we did just that, and watched a movie until midnight. She fell asleep on my shoulder. That same night, when "11:11" came around she told me to make a wish, so I did so. I wished to get a kiss goodnight, as I was supposed to be home by 10:30. She dropped me off where I parked, and I went in for a kiss, but she turned her head, and gave me a hug.

The next night we were hanging out at an outside mall with a few friends, and she said make a wish, it is 11:11, so i made the same wish. Again we both had to leave, and I had yet to get my kiss.

The next day we were talking on the phone before she had to go to work, and I had asked her if either of her wishes came true from the previous nights, and she told me no. I asked her what her wishes were, and without answering, she asked me the same question. I told her what my wish was, and she told me that was her wish too.

That same day she called me on her break, we talked, and she went back to work, I went into town and met with her again at the park. She was already with her bestfriend, and her bestfriend's boyfriend when I showed up. She was having a rough day, so I did what I could to cheer her up. She asked if I wanted to play basketball, and I said yes. We played for a little bit and then her friend, and her friend's boyfriend wanted to go for a drive, and off we went.

After we got back from driving around, we went back to the park, and her friend had to bring her boyfriend home, and left me and this girl alone. We talked for awhile, and eventually this girl had to go home. So i made the move to kiss her, and we did just that.

Now it seems like she takes advantage of every chance she gets to kiss me, cuddle with me, and hold hands with me, and I just wanted to have somebody's input on this situation, and see if I should ask her out, and what a unique way to go about doing that would be?

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