Is He Trying to Hurt Me or is Just Trying To Move On With Life?

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Yesterday I posted about my Wedding being called off and I found out he had posted my Engagement Ring for sale on Criagslist.

 

I am completely torn up about it. We ended our relationship Easter Sunday. April 12th and yesterday April 20th I found the ring for sale while I was at the house picking up the bridesmaid dresses. We were suppose to be married May 16th.

 

He is suppose to be moving out May1st and he is a carpenter. I know that times have been tough and money has been a little low for him. I guess it's not my problem anymore...right? (

 

I am just curious....I am trying so hard NOT to hate him right now...did he post the ring so soon becuase he needs to money to get on his feet or is this a way of trying to hurt me?

 

I really don't think he is thinking of me now since he is the one that is going to have to move out (the house is in my name) I am sure he is trying to get as much money as he can to get on his feet. I just don't understand why he had to do it so soon. He still is not trying to get in contact with me and it is tearing me up inside.

 

I was not able to sleep last night all I could think about is him and WHY!

 

Deep down inside I think it was due to cold feet and he took advantage of a situation to get out but he is not taking the best approach. If he would have talked to me about I would have completely understood.

 

I was not an angel in the realtionship we have had our arguements of course but it feels like he just does not care about me anymore and that thought just kills me!

 

What should I do...we have 2 dogs together and the person he is moving in with has 2 dogs of his own and he has asked to keep the dogs for 1-2 months until he can get a place of his own and I agreed.

 

After yesterday though..my friends and family have told me not to be so civil and to tell him to get out of my house now and just not work with him...I am trying to be the bigger person here because I think if I am the mean person then it would hurt me longer...What should I do?

 

I found out about the ring because I was curious and I was looking for it but I never thought in a million years I would have found it like that!!!! He went and got the ring appraised and I have been sking him to that for me since he gave me the ring for insurance purposes and he never did...come to find out he had no issue getting that information to benefit himself!!!

 

I ffel like we ended our relationship due to a fight over me not doing his taxes!!

 

Sorry I am just venting I just don't know what to do