am i that bad a person

[zade]

i dont know how to put this thing .

 

my girlfriend just broke up and it was my third [/url]

nobody wants to stick to me , all have some or the other problem with me .

i feeel as if i am just not a good person that could keep them happy.

my last girlfriend even said that it is me who compel others to go out of the relation

and somehow the thought has clung to me and makes me think is that really true .

i feel like a loser and i am so afraid to even imagine myself

it feels like as if i'll be ruining somebody'd life if i go in for a relation.

i am afraid to even imagine myself in another relation. i feel i am a loser who has just hurt people and done nothing else.

but somewhere down i even think the people who have left me were at fault too , but they never thought it was there fault , and put the whole blame on me

i dont know how to handle all this

why only i suffer why .. and the others live happily doesnt their conciuos make them see the right and the bad dont they ever feel sorry or guilty

[Meaplus3]

Zade, I'm sure your not a bad person. Sometimes things just don't work out. So you have been sort of unlucky in love so far. Don't lose hope. Besides, it takes two to make an R work.. so IMO the ones that did not work.. the other person is just as much at fault. Hang in there.

 

Mea:)

[zade]

thakns mea

 

but it is acceptable if it had happened with one girl . but all the ones i dated found me wrong ,that actually hurts big time and that also makes me doubt my ownself