TheVerveHistory Posted April 21, 2009 Posted April 21, 2009 I dated a girl for 7 months, it was amazing, no fights, everything was perfect, she even said "I love you"... etc. One day, however, she broke up with me... never gave a reason... we never really spoke afterwards. A few months later my friends sent her some nasty messages, I called her up and we got into a nasty, horrible shouting match. A few weeks later I really missed her and just decided to call her up. We talked like the good old times, it went well, and I asked if she wanted to hang out one day... just as friends... nothing more... she was receptive I'm really confused though... I'm thinking, I wanna start over, or maybe just fool around... she was really angry about what happened with my friends and she did hurt me horribly... any idea what her intentions would be?
TaraMaiden Posted April 21, 2009 Posted April 21, 2009 Never mind her intentions - what were your friends thinking about, to be nasty to her in that way?! That was rude, outrageous and completely uncalled for. It was not their place to be so rude to her, and I think perhaps you need to clear the air up with her - and ask your friends to keep their comments to themselves! They ruined this for you - I question the term 'friends'....!
sotired Posted April 21, 2009 Posted April 21, 2009 I'd say you have no chance with this girl if you remain friends with the people that were rude to her. I would ask them to at least apologize to her.
loser101 Posted April 21, 2009 Posted April 21, 2009 erm... it's one thing that your friends were rude to her, that's completely wrong etc but surely the major issue is that she just legged it without any explanation??? why would keep in touch with someone like that?
BCCA Posted April 21, 2009 Posted April 21, 2009 erm... it's one thing that your friends were rude to her, that's completely wrong etc but surely the major issue is that she just legged it without any explanation??? why would keep in touch with someone like that? ^THIS^ Who cares about what your friends do, the issue is she bailed on you without talking to you first. Thats just the easy way out. I asked if she wanted to hang out one day... just as friends... nothing more... she was receptive Here is the problem, you dont want to be JUST friends, so why offer to hang out as such? Its not going to be your way back with her, trust me, it will be the exact opposite. I'm thinking, I wanna start over, or maybe just fool around Well, thats fine, but unless shes on board, its a total waste of time. Let her come to you with these ideas, or forget about it. I doubt she would just fool around with you, or want to start over. any idea what her intentions would be? To have you as a friend, since that was what YOU suggested. If she wanted to get back together, she would say that. Being her friend is counter productive, and something you should avoid. Unless this girl can explain why she walked out, and let you know shes interested in making a RELATIONSHIP work, talking to her is an utter waste of your time.
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