jimmyjames Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 All of my previous relationships have been with girls who I was friends with that turned into a relationship. I never really pursued a girl before, especially since starting graduate school a few years ago. I am looking for some advice on a situation with a girl I met. A group of friends from school went on vacation together. Most of us are in the same class, but a few are in the class below us. I didn’t know anyone from the other class before the trip. Anyway, I spent some time with one of the girls from the other class and had a good time with her. During the trip some guy (from another group of people vacationing whom we did not know) bought her a rose. One night while hanging out with her, she mentioned she liked getting the rose, but ended up thinking the guy was a douche. I mentioned I would buy her another rose so she could forget the other guy. Well, I never got the chance to buy her that rose before the trip ended. I enjoyed the time that I spent with her during our trip and felt there was some chemistry between us. Since the trip I have not seen her that often because of our class schedules. The few times I have seen her it was just in passing. I will be seeing her even less soon since I will be moving for my last year of school. I still want to buy her that rose though, but just unsure about a few things. Is buying her that rose a good idea or will she feel weird about a guy that she barely knows sending her a rose? Should I just send one rose or more than one rose? How many is too many? Any other tips or pointers would be appreciated.
engravefeelthevoid Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 next time you see her; "Hey i won't lie to you but i really had fun talking to you the other day in the vacation i felt that you're different than the other girls as you are more mature and you can talk about some really interesting subjects...and i'd really love it if we'd sit together again" she'll tell you she had fun then tell her "how about we sit together in school/uni after the lectures someday are you okay with this ?" she'll say yes... trust me...but be sincere in ur words,,,and confident...
samspade Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 Don't buy her a rose. You don't even know her, and you'll come across like all the other chumps trying to buy her affections. Ask her out instead, and impress her with your personality. If you guys get married, send her flowers on her birthday.
Island Girl Posted April 22, 2009 Posted April 22, 2009 "Hey i won't lie to you but WTF?? You won't lie to me BUT -- and then you tell the whole truth anyway? What kind of an opener is THAT? The rest of the suggestion was okay but this part -- LEAVE IT OUT. It sounds ridiculous and makes it seem like you ARE telling a lie and you aren't. Don't buy her a rose. You don't even know her, and you'll come across like all the other chumps trying to buy her affections. Ask her out instead, and impress her with your personality. If you guys get married, send her flowers on her birthday. Exactly. samspade has got the right idea. Just be confident, walk up to her, and ask her out. Confidence is soooooo sexy.
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