engravefeelthevoid Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Okay so i went out on a date with her....first we had coffee...we talked too much where i asked her about her life and what she likes and all that and the wisdom we aquired over the years...then we had a walk in the mall...then we went to the water park near the mall walking where i went to the DJ panel, took the mic and dedicated a song for her...then we got some food and we actually ate it in the parking lot !!!! I felt that i shud make her feel relaxed and that im not judgmental and complicated... i remember having alot of fun in the parking lot so i made her sit with me in the parking lot an we talked too much in the parking lot....anyways then i took her home where we had a short walk there and i told her that im different than the other guys and that i respect her privacy and secrercy and that i'm not gona go and tell all my friends about me n her...then we said goodbye and she left I just felt that i made a small mistake when i spoke a little about my female friends...what do you think my next move should be ?
BobSacamento Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Nah you'd rather go tell total strangers lol.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Next time, don't blurt out too much about your friends, and what gender they are. In fact keep yourself from talking about " talking about you and said date".
Joker77 Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Don't disclose too much about yourself. You want to remain mysterious to her. That is where I have screwed up in the past by disclosing my whole life story to someone too soon and then the mystery is gone.
mr.dream merchant Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Yeah no kidding Joker, my GF still thinks I'm smoking weed and banging hood rats. She loves that mystery though
Joker77 Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Yeah no kidding Joker, my GF still thinks I'm smoking weed and banging hood rats. She loves that mystery though Nice...maybe I should use that one.
refurb Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 i told her that im different than the other guys and that i respect her privacy and secrercy and that i'm not gona go and tell all my friends about me n her...then we said goodbye and she left That seems like a really weird thing to say. What would you say about you and her to your friends? RF
Author engravefeelthevoid Posted April 24, 2009 Author Posted April 24, 2009 mm i removed a little bit of the mystery but not all !!! maybe say 20%...i guess i shudve slowed down a little !!! but its ok we're still good ! she hasnt called me in 2 days and i miss her but i dun wanna seem desparate !! what do you guys think my next move should be ? any othe advices ???
Surfer Dude Posted April 24, 2009 Posted April 24, 2009 mm i removed a little bit of the mystery but not all !!! maybe say 20%...i guess i shudve slowed down a little !!! but its ok we're still good ! she hasnt called me in 2 days and i miss her but i dun wanna seem desparate !! what do you guys think my next move should be ? any othe advices ??? How the hell do you miss someone you barely know? Anyhow, here's proper cure for your affliction of neediness and desperation: you need to date other women until you're exclusive with this one. This benefits you in several ways: 1. you stop being needy for female companionship 2. you gain abundance mentality instead of scarcity mentality when it comes to women 3. since you're getting some, you won't supplicate and act like a chump in front of any one woman Thank you Surfer!
Author engravefeelthevoid Posted April 25, 2009 Author Posted April 25, 2009 date more women...makes sense...ok i miss her because we talked on the phone for like 3 weeks before we went out...we got a little attatched...news is that she saw me online and told me that she ddnt call bc she lost my number...then we talked and we might go horse riding together tomorrow...i told her i was going anyways and that she could gimme a call if she wants
spookie Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 How old are you? Not to diminish the importance of your longing, but you sound young.
mr.dream merchant Posted April 25, 2009 Posted April 25, 2009 How the hell do you miss someone you barely know? Anyhow, here's proper cure for your affliction of neediness and desperation: you need to date other women until you're exclusive with this one. This benefits you in several ways: 1. you stop being needy for female companionship 2. you gain abundance mentality instead of scarcity mentality when it comes to women 3. since you're getting some, you won't supplicate and act like a chump in front of any one woman Thank you Surfer! Take this advice.
Author engravefeelthevoid Posted April 26, 2009 Author Posted April 26, 2009 I'm 20...and things aren't going so great i feel that i'm suddenly being friend-zones !!! now am kinda playing hard to get...dunno wuts happening.....
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