Melrapuo Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Last night my gf and I had a fight because I was upset she wanted to hang out with a guy friend of hers. I have no problem with her hanging out with other guy friends, but this one in particular has hit on her on the past. Granted, I fully trust my gf and he is not her type at all. Is it normal for me to at least be upset about it? I wasn't gonna tell her about it but she noticed I was acting strange, and when I admitted it she took it as if I have problems with her hanging out with other guys. This isn't true at all. I felt like I wasn't supposed to be upset. I mean, yea she's gonna be hanging out with other people besides him, but still. I wasn't going to stop her from hanging out with her friends. I'm going to another friend's comedy show anyway, so she needed something to do. But am I wrong here. Should I feel insecure, or jealous, or at least upset?
Bejita463 Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 I am not sure why she would have trouble understanding your disliking her hanging out with a guy that has made advances on her. That doesn't mean you do not trust her, it means you don't trust him. Having said that, you do trust her, so trust her. You aren't always going to like all of the friends of your significant others. Suck it up, and consider how you'd feel if she behaved that way because of one of your friends.
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