froufrou Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 So my boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. We've been friends for a few years, we finally started dating a few months ago, and everything was FANTASTIC! I was so sure he was 'the one', and he told me I had all the makings of the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with.... Now, here I am, still feeling the same feelings, but we broke up because of lack of time (and energy) on his part. He works 12-14 hours a day, 6-7 days a week, and he doesn't 'think to call me' at the end of the day. Of course I got my feelings hurt...We got into a fight about it 2 weeks ago, and haven't been able to talk until yesterday, when he told me he doesn't think he can be in a seriously relationship right now. There was no fighting, nothing to help make sense of having to say goodbye. I'm just stuck with all these left over feelings and I don't really know what to do with them. I don't feel like this was my fault, I don't feel rejected, I don't feel bad about myself, I just feel....sad. And I want to hold on to the hope that he loves me enough to realize this isn't what he wants, but I don't know. Maybe it's just an excuse for him to use to help soften the blow of not wanting to be with me. Ugh. I hate this.
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