incision Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Well some might remember my situation from a few months ago some might not so `ill recap. Wife said the i love you but not in love with you and we agreed to separate for a few months or so i thought because after i moved out she said we were over and she had kissed some other guy but wasn`t with him. Well 3 months later alot has changed i have spent the last 6 weeks at her house with the kids and her and sleeping in her bed, there has been alot of sex but she says she still doesn`t know what she wants and all i ask is does she want us to work or not an easy question i think. I`m back at my flat now and she texts me all the time, inviting me for dinner and to watch movies at her house. So as you can imagine i`m a little confused as to whats happening. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
seibert253 Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 During the 6 weeks you were staying with her, did you see any signs of her seeing/being with someone else? If not, I think you may me moving in the right direction. But, I wouldn't be too clingy, and let her call you, you don't call her. Let her reach out to you.
TrustInYourself Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 If it's not yes, then it's no. Treat her the same, but live your own life. Act like you are moving on. Because you are enabling this separation by your actions. You want the separation to end, that's understandable, but it's not your choice to be in this situation. Are you a confrontational person? If you are, play it cool and just start doing more things with other people, both men and women. Keep it on a friendly level, but let your wife know you have options. You are not here to wait for her to make up your mind.
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