SummerLady Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Bascially, if an ex told you they wanted to see you but kept putting it off, I assume they are not that interested Correct? He has gone through a lot recently and so have I with my divorce but I don't know how to close this out. Do I say something to him or just assume its a done deal and if he calls and wants to see me, then go from there. Because he is an ex it makes it more sticky for me as there are old feelings that are deep rooted. I would love to readdress this but I feel like I am then beating a dead horse when he says I am getting my life together as I just got divorced. Am I being impatient? or not facing the fact that this has no potential. Need objective advice. PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Alex_M Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Whatever it means, it's not good for you so don't talk to him unless he comes at you with a time place and date.
Author SummerLady Posted April 20, 2009 Author Posted April 20, 2009 Whatever it means, it's not good for you so don't talk to him unless he comes at you with a time place and date. Thanks Alex...
jessicasilver Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 just wait if its going to happen it will, dont ever chase them
Author SummerLady Posted April 20, 2009 Author Posted April 20, 2009 just wait if its going to happen it will, dont ever chase them Exactly. I think if its meant to be it will be.......I will not chase, not my style..
carhill Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t186470/ He likes the idea but not the reality. When the fantasy/past visualizations of what you were becomes a real possibility, he withdraws. Considering how and why he broke up with you 10 years ago and his age at that time, it sounds like he hasn't matured much and perhaps was emotionally immature back then. I'd give this one a pass. Don't ask him again....
Author SummerLady Posted April 20, 2009 Author Posted April 20, 2009 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t186470/ He likes the idea but not the reality. When the fantasy/past visualizations of what you were becomes a real possibility, he withdraws. Considering how and why he broke up with you 10 years ago and his age at that time, it sounds like he hasn't matured much and perhaps was emotionally immature back then. I'd give this one a pass. Don't ask him again.... I have def thought of this. It seems better on paper then in practice. I guess the part I find unbelievable is wouldn't you want to give it a try and see what happens then just say nah not meeting up. But if he is emotionally immature then he does not get it or want it...I will not ask again, such a waste:(
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