darlingc Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Hello I am a 19 year old male. I have been with somebody for 2 years and when we broke up I was extremely rusty at dating. so I have been talking to this girl that I really like for about 2 weeks now. we have been hanging out occasionally and every time im with her I feel like she wants me to make a move. nothing outrageous of course but like a kiss. im not sure how to go about it. I know just jumping in and kissing her would be bad so what should I do? Should it be a long one or one that lingers?
IcemanJB Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 This is my absolute favorite part of getting to know a new girl. If you get that subconscious "nudge" to make a move, DO IT. I've moved in for a first kiss while the girl was in mid-sentence before, and she loved it. She had to stop and catch her breath/calm down for a few minutes after that. For me, I will just get this little voice in my head saying "DO IT NOW", and I do, and it has not failed me. Just don't hesitate. If she seems interested and is fumbling around, she's probably waiting for you to do it. If she's tickling you or something flirty like that, it's a good sign. You could try holding her hand and see how she responds too. As for the length of the kiss: the first ones for me are usually about 5-10 seconds, and I tease her at the end by brushing my lips across hers while pulling away. I guess just do what's comfortable for you...and just go with the flow.
Recommended Posts