Author klarika Posted April 20, 2009 Author Posted April 20, 2009 I would not agree that affairs are good for marriages though. It is a misconception that might prejudice more than benefit. It creates an indulgent mentality. So, yes, please keep them coming:) I do not mind to hear all opinions. This is why I posted. Thank you.
carhill Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 What about still loving him? And, still believing him? You can choose a path that works for you. You can love someone and let them go. You can believe someone and still choose a path which is uniquely yours and divergent from theirs. This is a key concept I learned in MC. Acceptance. Accept his words. Accept his actions. Decide if they bring health and happiness to your life. Act on that decision. Time reveals all truths. Ask yourself....absent this topic, how do you feel about your marriage?
jwi71 Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 I'm with Lizzie on this (and for God's sake change your avatar back!) Thank you .. I will as soon as I get home.. Oh yeah...MUCH better. I do not often agree with your perspective...but I LOVE your avatars.
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