fofiffs Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 I've been doing so well these past few days. But today for some reason I had the biggest urge to check her myspace. So anyways, long story short she had a pic up of her and her new guy at the beach together. I just don't get it. She never wanted to go to the beach with me. Granted I work and go to school full time, and when I get the time to do something she never wanted to do things like that with me. I'm getting over her, but its just the fact that now she's doing things with this guy that I wanted to do. I'm like what the hell. I think she may be doing that on pupose because she knows after she broke up with me I was constantly checking her profile. Dammit I hate her so much. What is it with younger women going for older guys with more money. I know I'm not not rich, but I tried my damn best to provide for her and her baby. Why do guys nice guys like me who ain't rcih always get shafted. Isn't it suppose to be the thought that matters. I just don't get it. That's why I hate her so much and despise her for making me feel so used when I tried my damn best to do everything for her. Anyways, I'm starting to rant. Its just messed up how some women would do that. I hope and wish one day that she gets screwed over so bad.
DJMarky Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Karma my friend, Karma. Looks fade with time, then they will start to wonder why they aren't able to get as many guys as they were able to before. Just work on yourself, she will get what is coming to her. Don't beat yourself over for checking, for all she knows you haven't looked. Just try harder next time to avoid the urge. Things will get better for the both of us.
Author fofiffs Posted April 20, 2009 Author Posted April 20, 2009 Karma my friend, Karma. Looks fade with time, then they will start to wonder why they aren't able to get as many guys as they were able to before. Just work on yourself, she will get what is coming to her. Don't beat yourself over for checking, for all she knows you haven't looked. Just try harder next time to avoid the urge. Things will get better for the both of us. Thanks mark, I needed to hear those words of encouragement. I've actually notice that I have been doing better than a month ago. I just have some relapses from time to time like today. It just hurts knowing that everything she has said to me she is now doing with this other guy. Three weeks they been together and now it seems like she is in love with this guy. For me if I really was in love with someone and I broke up with them for a good reason I know for a fact I won't date someone just like that cuz I know its love. Its just so cruel how some people that you think loves you can just do that. I know i'm a good guy and everyone else tells me that. But for her to move on with someone twelve years older than her and has the money just hurts. It makes you feel like your a nobody. Basically like a tool thats outlasted its life. But your right karma will be her friend sooner or later and when that day comes. I hope she comes crashing down hard with no remorse as she did with me.
DJMarky Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Yep, it hurts. My ex did the same to me, where she did something for the new guy she would never have done for me. Our relationship was hush hush. She wouldn't tell her ex or his friends about me because she didn't want to hurt his feelings (truth is he was still buying her expensive gifts - she didn't want to lose that source of income). Then she starts ****ing another dude, I break up, straight away she is announcing to the world (including her ex (well ex ex now)) how great he is. I was just like you, I couldn't believe it. She was doing this for him, but wouldn't ever do it for me. I don't know what I did to deserve such bad treatment. I have given up completely on her. She is a crazy manipulative bitch. I feel sorry for her current boyfriend (even though I should feel like stabbing him) but he is blinded, just like I was at the beginning. Also, I kind of feel Karma kicked me in the ass since I was sleeping with her when she was with her other ex. She hasn't changed. She proved that to me when she told me she was bored of the new guy and was sending me pictures of herself. Not a good girl. I can't say for sure, but from what I have read your ex is also a user. It sucks you fell for a girl like that, but that is life, happens to the best of us. Just be thankful you didn't end up marrying her. You can still find a girl who will treat you right. Keep writing on here whenever you feel down, and I don't mind helping, cause it actually feels good to get all this out. My friends are sick of hearing about her, so I avoid bringing her up, except if I get drunk, which is another story hah. Least now I don't get sad, I just rant about how much of a bitch she was, but still enjoy myself, which in my eyes is an improvement!
EmperorR Posted April 21, 2009 Posted April 21, 2009 What goes up must come down, see the thing about me the last two relationships I have been in (my ex fiance, and this last ex that dumped me) I left as teh good person, no one can say anything about me I did my best and that's the best thing you can do, knowing you did your best in the relationship, it wasn't your fault your just more mature.
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