Steer me in the right direction after 4 months

[Fiaman]

Been in NC for 4 months and at least once a month she has tried communicating with me... Well this months came in the form of a facebook message which read...

 

"hola...so are you going to get a bike this summer? it be cool if u did...not that u would ride with me anyways. i might sell mine and get a new r6 cuz they handle super good, not sure thou. anyways just thought id say hey. hope all is well.

 

OH when i was in florida there was a puppy down there that looked EXACTLY like reggie but it was just a baby lol had the same spots and everything, i took a pic and sent it to u but it failed cuz i was on roaming."

 

 

I kinda have a urge to respond

[vessv6l]

Maybe ask her straight out why she continues to contact you? Im going to assume she left you, so you should ask her what she is trying to achieve, wether its just trying to maintain a friendship etc. Id ask her politely though, maybe reply to her email and ask her at the bottom. Maybe she still feels guilty about how things ended, Maybe she still has thoughts about when you were together, maybe she just wants to know that even though she broke your heart you will still talk to her. When she says " you were really special to me and i really appreciate your friendship" you can tell her you dont want her in your life, youve moved on and she should do the same

hope everything works out mate

[Fiaman]

You know what? I had a nice message written out just being friendly and then asking her but I couldn't send it! Im not about to throw away what I achieved in 4 months NC. I thought it'd be better just to not send anything because I know no matter what I say is not what I want to hear. I am going to wait until summer and then see how I feel and then maybe her and I can be friends but right now, its just not happening!

[vessv6l]

thats the way mate. By then you may have found someone else or realised shes not for you.