heartonsleeve123 Posted April 19, 2009 Posted April 19, 2009 I dated my highschool sweetheart for 5 years, until breaking up almost 3 years ago. We continued to be good friends because we hang out with the same people, and hooked up until both moving to different states about a year ago. I've stayed single and busy, and he started dating someone seriously about 2 months after moving. Once he started the new relationship we stopped talking until we met up again for a friends wedding 5 months ago, where once again we slept together. We did not reallly talk much afterwards, aside from the occasional text message on holidays, and he told me he planned on marrying this new girlfriend. Well about a month ago I hear from him, and he asks me if I think about him, and tells me that him and his girlfriend have been arguing a lot, and that I have been on his mind. For about the next week or two he would contact me to say hello, and I even tried to offer relationship advice (surprisingly I tried to support the relationship and make him feel better), and then he told me a few days later they broke up. Well we are still living in different states right now, and he told me yesterday that he thinks about me and wanted to know if I was over him. When I asked him if he was over me, he said that he would like to think he is, but that's all he would say about it. I guess my question is what is he doing? Does he want to get back together with me? Should I cut him out of my life? During our relationship we broke up a few times for a couple months and would casually date others, but always found our way back to each other. He is also one of my best friends, and he has said I am one of his. Can someone help me here? Thanks for any advice you can give me, I really appreciate it.
Lydz Posted April 21, 2009 Posted April 21, 2009 Personally, id try and cut him out all together. If you were really best friends then would you have stopped talking just because he started a new relationship with someone else? I dont think so. Sounds to me that he only started texting you when he and his other half were argueing for someone to make him feel better (like him asking if your over him yet) If you are happy single and without him then get on with your life. Its been 3 years and you've done just fine, so why let him back in now that he's split up from his girlfriend???
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